Seriously? I hanen't kept Os in 20 years and don't remember them to be that aggressive, but better safe than sorry.
2 Oscars should be fine in a 125g, but 3 will be a crowd. As soon as a pair is formed they will most likely be relentless with the third. As long as you have enough filtration though, 125g will be just fine though.
On a side note, a 125g or even a 150g is definently too small for an arowana.
A friend is selling an oscar about the same size as the two I have in my 125g. Would this tank be suitable to house 3 oscars?