Lets the genes kick in, it matters all on the genes. But quality food, clean water, filtration and good water perameters make a HUGE diffrence too. Your flowerhorn looks like a female to me, that dark spot on the top fin. Females wont grow a huge kok, most of the time none at all. Maybe just alittle bump.
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