This thread is not about a newcomer getting flamed. In fact, it is just the opposite. Reread the inflamatory title posted by a new MFK member. The general air around here now is one of argument and confrontation. People proudly post pictures of their tank, and others will respond with, "why don't you clean the glass before you take pictures", or "get rid of the ornaments", or "your tank would look better with substrate".....etc., ect., etc.
The funniest thing about the initial picture posted is that a new member once posted the picture and tried to pass it off as his own tank. He was called on it, but he still denied it. Yup, he was banned. The picture is very old. I love that picture, even though I am not a fan of JDM. I always considered it a photo op kind of picture, especially knowing that Ted has mega big tanks. I consider Ted on a higher plane of fishkeeping than I'm at. He has tried to help people by sharing his knowledge and experience of tank building. He has taken in the discards of others and now he has been criticized and called a hoarder. He certainly has a bigger heart than me. My responsibilities are for my fish only.
We should have a discussion on defining a responsible fishkeeper. If I were to define it, it would be a person who provides adequate housing and care so that their fish live to their full life potential. When a pacu with a potential to live 30+ years dies suddenly at 2 yrs because of horrible water parameters--that is not responsible fishkeeping. But how many people pick up a fish and think 30 year commitment? The problem is with really large fish that have slight chance at rehoming. You can sell, trade, give away smaller fish. The other problem is that fish are generally viewed way down the life chain--nowhere close to dogs, cats, horses. They are lesser creatures perhaps a step or two above ants and cockroaches. I think fish are considered disposable by many people, including fishkeepers. How a person views fish in the chain of life will to a great extent determine how they will treat their fish.