6 months and I'm in ruines again.

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get over it.

simple as that. It takes time but thats what you need to do. If you broke up it was for a reason. If she has moved on then why dwell on someone who is not going to return your feelings? your just wasting time you could use to hang out with friends, family and finding someone better. It hurts, you get over it and move on and eventually you find someone better. enjoy life and not being tied down for a while.
 
You can play a psychological game with her. What you do is, instead of you wanting her, have it where she wants you. You do this by giving her the impression you have moved on with life, are happy, met someone else etc. Send her a text or something and wish her luck in life, and then become scarce to get a hold of. If things go right she'll be the one wanting you and regretting the way she treated you for the simple fact she won't feel in control anymore. But aside from this you should move on anyway. The best thing you can do for your life is become independent from others, this means emotionally too. You'll eventually meet a responsible woman who is independent as well and the relationship would be a lot better. Most people these days are in dependent relationships and aren't really happy.
 
fishbum said:
And, a strange girl. Different girl etc......

And I hear ya on not getting banned. It's hard to tell guys that *$%&# is not worth crying over without being rude.
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werd. I actually feel for the guy. or any guy or girl going thru this. life's too short to be hung up on an ex.


I've only heard "get some strange" on mfk. never heard it before anywhere else. in real life or the internet
 
fishbum said:
The term "man up" needs to be removed from the English language.

Posting about being heartbroken on a fish forum is, well, kind of pathetic. Get some strange. It will do you a world of good.

I'm not sure what responding to this says about me........... :nilly:
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Thanks for all the awesome responses guys, it really helps.


Why post on a fish website? Because I've been going to this site for years and you'd never believe how many amazing people are on this site to help others in need. I feel close to every single member because they have the hobby in common with me and it's nice to come and be able to ask for advice.

I'm not sure what your problem is or why you feel like trying to make other people feel bad is going to do anything for you but that's YOUR problem, not mine. So keep it to yourself.


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Bigajb1 said:
About the getting some strange, I've been with 2 girls, been on dates with multiple others, and no come close to as special as my ex was. It doesn't make me feel any better.


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that's good. just keep at it. what you need is to find a girl you actually want to be in a relationship with.

damn, I just recently watched Forgetting Sarah Marshall, lol, I totally picture you looking like Jason Segel


honestly, i'd say lose her number. after her response when you asked her to grab lunch,............. dude, that would seal it for me man. pushing it further would just make you look desperate and kind of creepy


or you can do what eddie would advise. get with her mom or sister
 
if you dated her that long and she had a new boyfriend within 2-3 weeks? then im sorry to tell you but she is a tramp. She would have needed to mourn a little longer if she cared about you and even if she was not mourning, just out of a little respect.

no matter how much you were in love with her, she was not that into you and apparently didn't have the level of respect she should.

go nail some tail, preferably 2-10, then start looking for a better girl. Sometimes you get lucky with a good one first try, but most of the time you have to weed through a lot of bad ones before you find a worthy one, so keep on at it man.

or at least hire a very attractive hooker for a week and make sure she hears you were running around town with a girl hotter than her :P
 
Pyramid_Party said:
She might not be a tramp, just a very needy/dependent girl like a lot of females.
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eh that is true, or even a "I will show you for breaking up with me, so im getting a brand new boyfriend" reaction.


You just ride out the pain, every heartbreak makes you stronger and wiser and even though it will make your life worse for a few months (or a year depending on the type of person you are), in the end you will be happier, stronger, and better equipped to handle more of life's curveballs in the future.
 
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