What I meant is he sounded like NEVER having debt was easy. Like "well I can just shell out 40gs and have my place to stay, lalala." It takes a long time to save that much depending on bills and such. Renters pay almost as much as home owners nowadays in my area. Not a lot of people just have 40 k in their savings. While he's saving up and paying rent. I'm making payments to own my home AND not paying extra for rent. Each month he has to have more than me for 1 to save the 40 gs and 2 to pay rent. Of course all depends on standard of living, income and dependents.
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I don't really get your point.
I'm 30 years old with a wife, one kid and two more on the way. Between the wife and I, we clear less than 55k a year (but we both do something we love). In some parts of this country, that is practically poverty. With only the mortgage, one car to pay and one credit card that is empty for emergencies, I have no problem squirreling away a couple thousand a month.
One needs only balance the budget. There's a reason why my 510 gallon has taken a year and a half to put together and I have a hard time even filling my 150 gallon tank. I could throw money at it but that would be foolish.
People can LIVE quite comfortably debt free. I'm almost there thanks to nothing more than discipline. Unless something major happens, I'll have no debt in less than a year. The problem people have is a
lack of discipline and a tendency to buy **** they don't need. You don't
need a $200 a month data plan. You don't
need 900 channels of TV. You don't
need a 50 mbps internet connection. You most definitely don't
need a new car every two years. Hell, you don't
need a new car period. A $3000 Escort will do everything a $45,000 new Mustang will... except run 12s and stroke your ego. All of those things are nice to have, but at the end of the day are completely irrelevant and are a key reason why people can't put any money away. In five years, unless something dramatic happens, I'll be paying CASH for 20-50 acres (depends on what feels 'right' at the time) and a house.
I have no pity for someone who is 'broke' while working for $15 per hour when they have a brand new 2014 Mustang GT, a brand new iPhone 5 with unlimited data and all the other stupid ass bells and whistles people buy but don't need. When I was in the army I saw this crap all too often. I was a staff sergeant when I got out and I did two years as a drill sergeant. I got a first hand, up close look at how irresponsible people could be with their money. In the army, my Joe's problems were my problems and I got the distinct pleasure of fixing it for them.
All those stupid baubles won't make you happy anyway. Fill your life with the things that matter- family and friends who love you. Everything else is tertiary. People don't seem to understand that and try to fill that void with things. :/