Seriously dude, at this point you should probably just try it and see what you get, you got advice from, in my opinion, the leading expert on acrylic repair here
wednesday13
. If you don't want to take his advice, I don't know who else can help you more on this site, it sounds to me as though you just want someone to say what you want to hear. Which is fine man, whatever, but at that point you should just do it because you need to make your own experience,
wednesday13
and others are speaking from their complete experience, the pond armor guy isn't going to publicly say his product will probably not work, he has a product to sell. In the end it's your tank, hope your experience gaining doesn't cost you here.
Lepisosteus
I think king joey did something about DIY bulkheads, I didn't watch that particular video but maybe you could make your own bulkhead that size? Or technically you could reduce threaded bulkheads through adapters, could do that with slip too just a lost messier and takes more room.