And no i dont feel you were being rude but the other aspect of that is when people say im not trying to be rude, its either going to be rude, or an opinion that can be construed as rude (AKA criticism in any form) 9 times out of 10. I do appreciate the feedback and i am going to start testing my water also and get my levels back to par. For the most part we havent had any problems but after 4 years of running and only an ich outbreak, we are having issues with the 75 this year. Im new to it and my girlfriend has been doing it a while. I know the hardness is just a preference, i learned that when i freaked out from looking at a test strip and it was almost red in the box. And really i knew it was the maintenence, but i wasnt sure exactly what was doing it becaude i couldnt figure out what the murky but clear and almost gooey look the water got to it. And my comment about the low ph is due to the fact that it will also plummet if you stir the sand and there is alot in it. I feel like with the symptoms i had yesterday i should have waited at least 24 hours before reintroducing them because the water looks completely different today and smells completely different. I feel like the water is honestly safe now. I will be cleaning and testing still though. Another question, while im cleaning the tank next time, no fish, and i stir up all that crud, should i be testing it after each stirring so that i know if the sand is still holding that nasty in it? Because my hypothesis, and correct me if im wrong, is that testing it right after stirring and draining some of it, should show reflections of the spikes in levels if i time it properly. I should be able to stir it, let it settle for a few seconds and then test it i think. Once my levels are no longer spiking when i stir it, it should mean the substrate is clean, right?