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rn im feeling pretty overwhelmed. There are so many fish that I want to keep! There are a lot of factors limiting me including being young, money and space. And of course my ability and the time it takes to care for them. For whatever reason i'm never really satisfied with my tanks and always want to buy more "stuff" for them even when I obviously don't need it. But for the past few years when i've gone to sleepaway for a month and not bought anything that urge goes away completely for a while. That same urge also goes away when I don't spend my pocket money for a while. Kinda weird.
My advice, take a breath, this hobby is a long haul! I definitely was more restless when younger like you and enjoyed switching the setups up a million times. So if that's what keeps you interested, go for it, as long as you find nice homes for the fish you move on. But nowadays I enjoy keeping fish and setups for a longer time. Watching a fish grow from a small juvenile into a nice big individual and keeping them for years gives me satisfaction.

As far as what type of fish, I have always loved cichlids (especially central american), and I'm sure I always will. I feel like they have more individual personality than most other types of fish. That could all be in my head, but it helps me enjoy the hobby. I find the larger cichlids easier to feel some kind of "bond" with than small schooling fish and the like. I also have moved into saltwater reefs in the last couple of years, and it helped re-ignite my love for the hobby. Doing the same kind of setups does get old after a while, and I had been doing mostly cichlids for 20+ years. Nice to have a whole new side of aquaculture to research and learn about.

Here's my current favorite fish, Big Boy. Top photo about 4 years ago at 3" with his wife who he killed (rip), bottom photo recent at about 7" with fins.
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My advice, take a breath, this hobby is a long haul! I definitely was more restless when younger like you and enjoyed switching the setups up a million times. So if that's what keeps you interested, go for it, as long as you find nice homes for the fish you move on. But nowadays I enjoy keeping fish and setups for a longer time. Watching a fish grow from a small juvenile into a nice big individual and keeping them for years gives me satisfaction.

As far as what type of fish, I have always loved cichlids (especially central american), and I'm sure I always will. I feel like they have more individual personality than most other types of fish. That could all be in my head, but it helps me enjoy the hobby. I find the larger cichlids easier to feel some kind of "bond" with than small schooling fish and the like. I also have moved into saltwater reefs in the last couple of years, and it helped re-ignite my love for the hobby. Doing the same kind of setups does get old after a while, and I had been doing mostly cichlids for 20+ years. Nice to have a whole new side of aquaculture to research and learn about.

Here's my current favorite fish, Big Boy. Top photo about 4 years ago at 3" with his wife who he killed (rip), bottom photo recent at about 7" with fins.
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crazy! My biggest tropheus is also called big boy!
 
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My advice, take a breath, this hobby is a long haul! I definitely was more restless when younger like you and enjoyed switching the setups up a million times. So if that's what keeps you interested, go for it, as long as you find nice homes for the fish you move on. But nowadays I enjoy keeping fish and setups for a longer time. Watching a fish grow from a small juvenile into a nice big individual and keeping them for years gives me satisfaction.

As far as what type of fish, I have always loved cichlids (especially central american), and I'm sure I always will. I feel like they have more individual personality than most other types of fish. That could all be in my head, but it helps me enjoy the hobby. I find the larger cichlids easier to feel some kind of "bond" with than small schooling fish and the like. I also have moved into saltwater reefs in the last couple of years, and it helped re-ignite my love for the hobby. Doing the same kind of setups does get old after a while, and I had been doing mostly cichlids for 20+ years. Nice to have a whole new side of aquaculture to research and learn about.

Here's my current favorite fish, Big Boy. Top photo about 4 years ago at 3" with his wife who he killed (rip), bottom photo recent at about 7" with fins.
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i dont know much about south americans. What species is big boy? i appreciate that "shape" which is why I enjoy tropheus and mbuna
 
My advice, take a breath, this hobby is a long haul! I definitely was more restless when younger like you and enjoyed switching the setups up a million times. So if that's what keeps you interested, go for it, as long as you find nice homes for the fish you move on. But nowadays I enjoy keeping fish and setups for a longer time. Watching a fish grow from a small juvenile into a nice big individual and keeping them for years gives me satisfaction.

As far as what type of fish, I have always loved cichlids (especially central american), and I'm sure I always will. I feel like they have more individual personality than most other types of fish. That could all be in my head, but it helps me enjoy the hobby. I find the larger cichlids easier to feel some kind of "bond" with than small schooling fish and the like. I also have moved into saltwater reefs in the last couple of years, and it helped re-ignite my love for the hobby. Doing the same kind of setups does get old after a while, and I had been doing mostly cichlids for 20+ years. Nice to have a whole new side of aquaculture to research and learn about.

Here's my current favorite fish, Big Boy. Top photo about 4 years ago at 3" with his wife who he killed (rip), bottom photo recent at about 7" with fins.
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Thanks for the advice:),maybe I just haven't found my thing yet always thought it would be central american cichlids because of the same reasons you love them - their personality when compared to most other fish but i guess i was wrong.Big boy is beautiful.It sure does feel magical when you bring home this tiny fish and it grows into a giant before your eyes.
 
I build my set ups around the 1 fish I cannot seem to keep this hobby without. I love my arowana, and I have built a lot of different set ups around them from other big predators to having 500 or little tetras with my 3 foot silver.

I don't feel guilty, and have just adapted everything around my 1 mandatory constant. You'll figure out what is best for you!
 
Mainly into new world cichlids (central Americans in particular) but there are so other many fish that I love. It's the reason I have multiple tanks. And like someone else posted I usually keep most of my fish for life (although I have rehomed a few). I would like to get better at keeping planted tanks, nothing hi tech or CO2 or whatever, just want to get more of a green thumb lol.
 
To be honest, I’ve always had a love for catfish however the past year or so I’ve moved more so to african fish and siniperca. There’s nothing wrong with your tastes in fish changing, it’s part of life, things change.
 
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I'm into building glass tanks right now. Trying to go into business for myself locally here soon. Foshkeeping wise I'm kinda at a standstill. Thinking about getting some more clown loaches for my next additions.
 
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