I'm so very sorry for your loss
FINWIN
. It is even more poignant given that I wouldn't have my choc if it wasn't for Bobo.
You've had such rotten luck lately and I was wondering if all your troubles have been pure coincidence, or whether something is amiss.
I know you fondly refer to your cichlid set up as "goon city", and we've all read your stories in this thread regarding the daily antics that your fish get up to.
We all look on their daily activity/shenanigans light heartedly, but what if there was some serious stress going on between the fish? Not necessarily manifesting itself in pure violence between the fish, but just a slow burning type stress, which ultimately led to health problems? We all know what stress leads to in fish.
I dunno. Just trying to offer something at this sad time, so that moving forward you don't have to go through the heartache and expense again.