Another point worth considering is that "got a fish 3 days ago" and "feeding tongs" don't really belong in the same discussion. Personally, I doubt that I would have even offered food until at least the third day or later...and I certainly wouldn't be poking the offered food in the fish's face with tongs. A fish already stressed after being netted, bagged, mailed and acclimated (to a painfully bright tank with no visible cover of any sort) does not need additional stress from being poked and prodded. That fish ain't skinny; a few days without food is the least of your concerns. If he is going to eat...he will sense the presence of food and find it very handily without your help. And if he isn't going to eat...bothering him won't change that for the better.
Incidentally, starting two threads with exactly the same title in two different forum sections is going to cause nothing but confusion.
Incidentally, starting two threads with exactly the same title in two different forum sections is going to cause nothing but confusion.
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