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Smaller fish are easy to rehome. Ohio fish rescue and Viktor, although too far away from you, surely are not the only places which would gladly take your bigger fish within a reasonable distance from you?

One thing is for sure. Your education is key here, NOT fish. The worry of keeping your fish is not a distraction you want whilst studying for your future.

You've all the time in the world to get back into the hobby once you finish your education.
Thank man seriously!!! I will look into Vik or ofr tbh. I am making a list to give to my fish club for my smaller fish. Hopefully someone can take them. I’m just worried once I’m done my four years all the cool fish will be banned.
 
The issue with what you’re saying is, yes I have big fish but I have the provisions. I work two jobs in the summer. Didn’t post this to be nit picked.
This is the issue with so many forums… 🤷‍♂️
Thank you once again for actual helpful advice rather than criticism.
You seem to be under the impression that what I said was criticism and not advice. Read my post again Mike as you seem to have misinterpreted what I said.

The first part was a generalized statement on younger fish keepers based on what I’ve seen personally which confirms it. The latter part was advice which if I recall correctly is what you wanted, no? If you still have any problems with what I posted then please tell me directly so I can better help you Mike.

I’m here to help you succeed and thrive, not to drag you down comrade.
 
You're dealing with two separate concerns, from the sounds of it. First, what to do with your fish when you go to college. I think you're correct to downsize or even eliminate altogether the tanks you leave running at home. I was in the identical situation back in the lat 70's, and foolishly attempted to keep a number of tanks in operation. My father did some feeding and simple maintenance for me, but I was travelling back and forth between Toronto and Windsor, a 4-hour train trip, every couple of weeks...and then working like a crazy person doing maintenance when I was home, unable to enjoy my visit. By the end of the first year, I had divested myself of almost all of my fish and tanks. Fish keeping is supposed to be fun. Having too many fish in too many aquariums taking up too much of your time is not fun, and eventually both you and the fish will suffer for it.

Your second concern seems to be a lack of "cool" fish when you return to the hobby after college. While it's probably correct that there will be further restrictions and tighter legislation, I think you need to perhaps re-examine your attitude about this. Any fish, kept and maintained properly and in good health...is pretty cool, IMHO. Fish are practically like aliens when compared to other animals; living in a liquid medium where they have freedom to move in three dimensions, breathing dissolved oxygen; they're about as exotic as one can get and still be from Earth, IMHO.

Too many people consider a fish to be "cool" or worthy of their interest only if it's uncommon, or expensive, or is perhaps owned by very few other people. Half of MFK sounds like they would give up a kidney if they could only get their hands on an Asian aro, or a snakehead or some other example of unobtainium. You know what? If you get one of those, you realize that it's just another fish. If Guppies become illegal tomorrow...you'd hear the same weeping and wailing: "Oh, if only I could get..."

I've owned lots of fish that might be considered "cool" to folks like that...some of which I can no longer own due to legal restrictions, and I do regret that...but I have gotten just as much enjoyment out of simple things like Swordtails, Mosquitofish, Firemouth Cichlids, native Sunfish and Bullheads and many, many others. I'm currently keeping goldfish for the first time, at least in a serious way. I went through tons of goldfish feeders back before I knew any better...and I had a couple in a smallish tank back when I got around on a bicycle...but I am now keeping about twenty plain ordinary common goldfish in my main tank, along with a few other cool-tolerant species. I'm loving it! Fish are cool!

Some fish will become unavailable...and others will become "new" to the hobby and available...and you just need to learn to appreciate what is available to you. Good luck with whatever plan you choose; hopefully you keep us posted on progress. :)
 
You're dealing with two separate concerns, from the sounds of it. First, what to do with your fish when you go to college. I think you're correct to downsize or even eliminate altogether the tanks you leave running at home. I was in the identical situation back in the lat 70's, and foolishly attempted to keep a number of tanks in operation. My father did some feeding and simple maintenance for me, but I was travelling back and forth between Toronto and Windsor, a 4-hour train trip, every couple of weeks...and then working like a crazy person doing maintenance when I was home, unable to enjoy my visit. By the end of the first year, I had divested myself of almost all of my fish and tanks. Fish keeping is supposed to be fun. Having too many fish in too many aquariums taking up too much of your time is not fun, and eventually both you and the fish will suffer for it.

Your second concern seems to be a lack of "cool" fish when you return to the hobby after college. While it's probably correct that there will be further restrictions and tighter legislation, I think you need to perhaps re-examine your attitude about this. Any fish, kept and maintained properly and in good health...is pretty cool, IMHO. Fish are practically like aliens when compared to other animals; living in a liquid medium where they have freedom to move in three dimensions, breathing dissolved oxygen; they're about as exotic as one can get and still be from Earth, IMHO.

Too many people consider a fish to be "cool" or worthy of their interest only if it's uncommon, or expensive, or is perhaps owned by very few other people. Half of MFK sounds like they would give up a kidney if they could only get their hands on an Asian aro, or a snakehead or some other example of unobtainium. You know what? If you get one of those, you realize that it's just another fish. If Guppies become illegal tomorrow...you'd hear the same weeping and wailing: "Oh, if only I could get..."

I've owned lots of fish that might be considered "cool" to folks like that...some of which I can no longer own due to legal restrictions, and I do regret that...but I have gotten just as much enjoyment out of simple things like Swordtails, Mosquitofish, Firemouth Cichlids, native Sunfish and Bullheads and many, many others. I'm currently keeping goldfish for the first time, at least in a serious way. I went through tons of goldfish feeders back before I knew any better...and I had a couple in a smallish tank back when I got around on a bicycle...but I am now keeping about twenty plain ordinary common goldfish in my main tank, along with a few other cool-tolerant species. I'm loving it! Fish are cool!

Some fish will become unavailable...and others will become "new" to the hobby and available...and you just need to learn to appreciate what is available to you. Good luck with whatever plan you choose; hopefully you keep us posted on progress. :)
I somewhat agree with this. I had wanted to get my hands on various wolf fish, a bowfin, and few others and after the initial “I finally got them” wore off, they weren’t as special as I imagined, still cool but not so much cooler than other fish that are common
 
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I left a 10g with a few small fish in the care of my mom when i left.

I shoehorned a 29g into my dormitory the first year despite being against the rules, then later a 55g at my off campus spot. I kept multiple large cichlids in it (poorly) and if you think thats bad i wont tell you what i kept in the 29g lol.

Depending on how long you have before college i would start downsizing now. Sell off all of your least favorite tanks, gear, and fish that will sell for more pocket money which will be needed. Im aware you may love your fish and tanks but when you look back in the future you will be glad you took some early steps in mitigating what could become a major CF of time, logistics, and money if you have to liquidate everything in a hurry.
 
You're dealing with two separate concerns, from the sounds of it. First, what to do with your fish when you go to college. I think you're correct to downsize or even eliminate altogether the tanks you leave running at home. I was in the identical situation back in the lat 70's, and foolishly attempted to keep a number of tanks in operation. My father did some feeding and simple maintenance for me, but I was travelling back and forth between Toronto and Windsor, a 4-hour train trip, every couple of weeks...and then working like a crazy person doing maintenance when I was home, unable to enjoy my visit. By the end of the first year, I had divested myself of almost all of my fish and tanks. Fish keeping is supposed to be fun. Having too many fish in too many aquariums taking up too much of your time is not fun, and eventually both you and the fish will suffer for it.

Your second concern seems to be a lack of "cool" fish when you return to the hobby after college. While it's probably correct that there will be further restrictions and tighter legislation, I think you need to perhaps re-examine your attitude about this. Any fish, kept and maintained properly and in good health...is pretty cool, IMHO. Fish are practically like aliens when compared to other animals; living in a liquid medium where they have freedom to move in three dimensions, breathing dissolved oxygen; they're about as exotic as one can get and still be from Earth, IMHO.

Too many people consider a fish to be "cool" or worthy of their interest only if it's uncommon, or expensive, or is perhaps owned by very few other people. Half of MFK sounds like they would give up a kidney if they could only get their hands on an Asian aro, or a snakehead or some other example of unobtainium. You know what? If you get one of those, you realize that it's just another fish. If Guppies become illegal tomorrow...you'd hear the same weeping and wailing: "Oh, if only I could get..."

I've owned lots of fish that might be considered "cool" to folks like that...some of which I can no longer own due to legal restrictions, and I do regret that...but I have gotten just as much enjoyment out of simple things like Swordtails, Mosquitofish, Firemouth Cichlids, native Sunfish and Bullheads and many, many others. I'm currently keeping goldfish for the first time, at least in a serious way. I went through tons of goldfish feeders back before I knew any better...and I had a couple in a smallish tank back when I got around on a bicycle...but I am now keeping about twenty plain ordinary common goldfish in my main tank, along with a few other cool-tolerant species. I'm loving it! Fish are cool!

Some fish will become unavailable...and others will become "new" to the hobby and available...and you just need to learn to appreciate what is available to you. Good luck with whatever plan you choose; hopefully you keep us posted on progress. :)
Very true. I’ll start getting rid of most of my stuff for sure. Thank you for this.
 
Very true. I’ll start getting rid of most of my stuff for sure. Thank you for this.
Have you looked into finding out if there’s an aquarium club local to you? Those are a good option along with mfk.
 
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surfermike915, as someone going to college in a few years and has a tank to worry about, I totally get your fears. I don't know your situation location-wise, but here is the best solution if you go to a college within an hour away from home or less: stay home until you finish college.

Here are the benefits of staying home: 1. SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than staying at the college (unless your parents make you pay rent, you can stay there for free), 2. Because it should be cheaper to stay at home, you can put your money into better things such as textbooks, food, pets, etc. 3. You can take care of your fish and any other pets so you don't worry about them, and 4. You can stay near your folks as we say down South.

If this can work for you, you may still want to downsize because you won't have time to take care of everything, but you won't have to hope and pray other people can take of your precious stock properly.

As I said above, I don't know your situation, so this may not work for you, but I hope I helped. :) If it doesn't work, you can do what others have said.
 
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Here’s my advice.
Keep the stuff you want and can house
Find someone who you can trust to look after your rare stuff. There may be some people here on mfk near you?
I’m pretty sure ofr do trips to rescue stuff? They might even board. I’m not to sure.

In the end, if you gotta sell your big stuff, it’s no biggie. Coming from a guy who lost an entire collection of rare and endangered fish, you can build it back up again.
 
Here’s my advice.
Keep the stuff you want and can house
Find someone who you can trust to look after your rare stuff. There may be some people here on mfk near you?
I’m pretty sure ofr do trips to rescue stuff? They might even board. I’m not to sure.

In the end, if you gotta sell your big stuff, it’s no biggie. Coming from a guy who lost an entire collection of rare and endangered fish, you can build it back up again.
Thanks mate. The issue is I am committing to row division 1 in college. Ive come up with a list. I just need to get ride of the misc. stuff. The not so rare fish that I can always get no issue. Thank you for everyone's input.
You seem to be under the impression that what I said was criticism and not advice. Read my post again Mike as you seem to have misinterpreted what I said.

The first part was a generalized statement on younger fish keepers based on what I’ve seen personally which confirms it. The latter part was advice which if I recall correctly is what you wanted, no? If you still have any problems with what I posted then please tell me directly so I can better help you Mike.

I’m here to help you succeed and thrive, not to drag you down comrade.
Yes, sorry. I am so used to being criticized for what I keep since people hear my age and instantly think I cram RTC and PACU in 10 gallons. some of these fish live in better conditions than I could've ever thought i would have been able to originally keep them. I apologize for my lashing out and defensive response. Hope this clears the air :)

As for giving fish away to other MFK'ers, I will make a seperate post dedicated to what stock is up for sale, some fish like my bigger pacu, no one will want to buy (nor can i blame them) but I will find somewhere they can thrive. I dont wanna see my fish go to a public aquarium. I dont know why, just am kinda against it. Id rather see em go to Rich or viktor. once again thanks everyone.
 
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