Your tetracanthus is very young, maybe too young to have developed a steeper cranial profile.
The male below, is about 10".
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his mate is only @ 4-5".
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That gives me more hope!! Thank you!!Picture above is my young male over black substrate.
Definitely male. Look at my male #15. He would color up differently due to the dark substrate. When I removed it and used pfs, the colors lightened up dramatically.In thhe pics posted in post #12, they are beginnning to look like it may be a female.