Back on track... I saw a 72 bow listed on craigslist. His promise was that the tank would get you a lot of action. I'm not sure if he sold it using that.
I guess half of the girls liked the tank, half didn't care. For a while they had no choice my 75 doubled as a headboard for a long time. .. goodthing fish keep their mouths shut!
from a female's perspective... heck yeah the glow of a tank is sexy... expecially if i didnt know jack about fish...
your situation doesnt suprise me at all...