Am I being Selfish?

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What should I do?

  • Go by yourself, sometimes fish time alone is best!!!

    Votes: 66 58.9%
  • Wait to go together, you selfish bastard!!!

    Votes: 46 41.1%

  • Total voters
    112
I'd feel depressed being alone. Definitely go together.
 
pwmin;2240362; said:
I don't know your situation enough, but I would probably go by myself and then go with her later.

:iagree: That way the 1st time you could take your time and look as long as you want!
 
go yourself.... only way i can see her being hurt if you never mentioned it to her at all..... then maybe she would be a little hurt..but if you mentioned it and she just cannot get time off.....then of course you should go alone..and then go again when she has the day...
 
Ok, I might get in trouble for this, and Gr8, please, please, please bon't take offense to this... but this just seems like the perfect occasion for me to bust this one out. Wait for it...
Fishes before B****es
 
ok.. being a woman of the female persuasion. i KNOW i would get upset with you for going without me the first time.

so i'm gonna say that you should wait and go with her the first time and if you still want time alone with the fish go back by yourself later on.
 
You should go right away and take lots of pictures and video for us.

It's part of your duty as an upstanding member of MFK! We made you do it! :headbang2


Oh, and by the way, make sure you never let her know that you were asking all of us about this...
 
GO NOW!!! then you can be all that much smarter when you go with him/her..... whomever your other might be...!:headbang2
 
While most women are insane, some of them are not.
That fact that you are asking means you already know she is the kind that will be upset.
Take her with you, for her. Go back for you.
She doesn't want to see the fish. She want's to be included. She want's to see the fish, with you.

Or she just want's a free trip. And she will suck every last drop of enjoyment from your day.

Whatever.
If you don't take her she will be sitting around talking with her friends asking if this qualifies you as a jerk. They always, ALWAYS say "Yep!" If she had any doubt before, she will be convinced by the time you get back. And you will pay.
When you are done paying, and you forget about this, she will remind you. And you will pay.

Women: They do not want what they say they want. It is a test.

If the "other" is a guy, just distract him with something shiny. You'll be back before he knows you left.

And you can't go by yourself first and take her later. Because it won't be "a special moment of discovery shared in the relationship" it will be "old and used and 2nd rate 2nd hand" and you will be a "jerk" and she really will suck out all the fun.
And you will pay.
 
Spankbelly;2243016; said:
While most women are insane, some of them are not.
That fact that you are asking means you already know she is the kind that will be upset.
Take her with you, for her. Go back for you.
She doesn't want to see the fish. She want's to be included. She want's to see the fish, with you.

Or she just want's a free trip. And she will suck every last drop of enjoyment from your day.

Whatever.
If you don't take her she will be sitting around talking with her friends asking if this qualifies you as a jerk. They always, ALWAYS say "Yep!" If she had any doubt before, she will be convinced by the time you get back. And you will pay.
When you are done paying, and you forget about this, she will remind you. And you will pay.

Women: They do not want what they say they want. It is a test.

If the "other" is a guy, just distract him with something shiny. You'll be back before he knows you left.

And you can't go by yourself first and take her later. Because it won't be "a special moment of discovery shared in the relationship" it will be "old and used and 2nd rate 2nd hand" and you will be a "jerk" and she really will suck out all the fun.
And you will pay.


All of that is exactly why you go by yourself and don't tell her.
 
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