whats wrong with his comment? he said nothing bad. most people i know that had kids w/o planning for them made it very clear that they do not regret having kids and they love them to death. BUT, if they could go back and change it, they would have waited on having kids. Whats wrong with saying that?
K I didn't have time to look through 12 pages of response here, but a lot of people will tell you that having kids will change your mind. This is true but if you don't have them and don't want kids then there is not a bad thing to stick to your guns.
You can always find someone to give you the big snip. Just have to be firm that you really don't want kids. I got snipped but that was AFTER 3 kids, I love them and wouldn't trade them, but often I wish they would all just go away! But at the same time couldn't think of my life without them.
"I don't want kids either, but in saying that, I have 3. I always say I should have stuck with dogs! (I do love them though, but if I had my life over I'd have none)"
If you read my message you will see that I said I do love them. My message was a bit tongue in cheek, you know Ha Ha. If I had my life over I wouldn't have them thats true. But they are here, I live and would die for them (and they know it). But kids consume your life, you are never the same again (and yes there are good points about that but kids are for LIFE)
K I didn't have time to look through 12 pages of response here, but a lot of people will tell you that having kids will change your mind. This is true but if you don't have them and don't want kids then there is not a bad thing to stick to your guns.
You can always find someone to give you the big snip. Just have to be firm that you really don't want kids. I got snipped but that was AFTER 3 kids, I love them and wouldn't trade them, but often I wish they would all just go away! But at the same time couldn't think of my life without them.
i dont think you should be criticized about what you say. hell i dont want kids but if it happened then id love them and raise them right which it seems like you care about. i dont think there is anything wrong with saying you would rather not have kids if you could do it over. i think whats important is u cant but ur raising them well and doing the best u can.
whats wrong with his comment? he said nothing bad. most people i know that had kids w/o planning for them made it very clear that they do not regret having kids and they love them to death. BUT, if they could go back and change it, they would have waited on having kids. Whats wrong with saying that?
