So sorry its come to this Martin,as i said on my previous post, so long as the stomach area was untouched it should recover,sadly this wasnt the case,you dont keep rays for 30 years plus without being painfully familiar with these experiences,i lost a large female Henlei in the same way many years ago,she was part of a trio and guess what, she was the best female of the two....sods law....really hope your female is gravid again....all the best.
Ps im sure your mate Giles will be able to source you a nice male when your ready.