It takes a lot to make me upset. Don't get me wrong there are people fully capable of doing it, but they just go on the ignore list and I carry on. Venom, you're not one of those people.
I get irritated when I see people drag vendors through the mud. Don't get me wrong, obviously some deserve it, but when some of the nicest rays I have were obtained from one of these questionable vendors, I'm going to back the guy. Why? Cause I have swimming proof of decent transactions. I've seen several decent vendors disappear because hobbyists are unable to admit the mistakes they make, resulting in a dead fish, and in turn another vendor's name tarnished cause they're too big of coward to admit they made a mistake. They get away with it and then repeat. In a few years we will have NO source for new rays, only the ones being bred by breeders. Why? Cause we as hobbyists are so ungreatfull that nobody in thier right mind would ever even think about trying to do the impossible and please the unpleasable.
As far as this transaction, I'm not saying crap. It's nobodies business yet, as I'm still hoping to see the situation resolved. If it doesn't get resolved I'll take legal action and eventually the truth will come out.
I've been a very devoted member on this forum, cause I've learned a lot here, so I feel it necassary to contribute back what I can. I mix fish that shouldn't be mixed and let everyone know how it goes so they can use my experience in making a decision for themselves. I risk my own animals, and instead of keeping it to myself I share my experiences with everyone else. I have spent years building a Marble collection of the nicest rays I could find. Only to try to breed them and offer them back to the hobbyists here cause we all know how much fun it is trying to get a nice Marble. I'm not out here spending 4 digits on them cause I think it's fun. I think it's a rip off, but I also think that if others out there enjoy them like I do then screw it I'll take one in the wallet for the team. Same with Falkneri. Nobody wanted to get off thier butt and get some and start breeding them so I did. Nobody that really knows me has anything bad to say about me, cause they know better. I can't count how many times I've sold prized rays to people that I didn't want to sell, just for the good of the hobby. I did it with my prized lady Jag - Sold her to someone with a male and looky now- Hobbyists can buy CB Jags now. I've done it with Marbles, sold my nicest one to someone who has a nicer one to mate with it then I do, that way outstanding pups are available to other hobbyists.
You guys can draw all the conclusions about me you want, but they would likely be different if you actually knew me. I have NO problem whatsoever admitting being wrong. I do it everyday. I'd be a crappy auto technician if I was right all the time, instead I learn from my mistakes, just like I did with car audio. You don't become a world champion by doing things right, you do them wrong and learn from it. That carried on into the fishkeeping when I quit doing car audio. I make mistakes all the time and like to think people learn from them. If anyone has paid attention to my filtration threads you'd know it's been nothing but years of making mistakes and learning from them.
I think it's funny that you guys are so quick to judge and give a hard time to someone that has contributed to this forum year after year. The problem is this kinda stuff should come from people you actually know but instead I have complete strangers judging me. You guys should take what's happening right now and understand that this is the exact stuff that drives away the people that have been here a while. I have no reason to be here really, I've learned what I can and only try to help, but IF I'm gonna have to deal with this drama crap I'll just quit coming here, just like all the people I've learned so much from have.