every fish is in the hands of the beholder... watch you fish for atleast 10 mins and see how they interact with eachother, i watch mine everyday and deff see some sweet personilty
Absolutely 100% agree.armac;3920708; said:I bought my 240 gallon tank three years ago, I bought some F2 dovis from Fish farm 2 years ago. I buy bulk massivore from JohnPTC, and I by bulk prime from Ken's fish.
I do not throw money at the hobby, I enjoy the hobby, there is no need to break yourself to be happy.
And do not get me wrong there are a few serious fishkeepers here, look at Li, he has had his same fish, for years, and he continues to buy, very nice fish.
But look back at three years ago, are those same folks still here? If so they are real fishkeepers, these "flash in the pan" keepers here this month gone in three months are not real hobbiests. They have a short term infatuation they are looking embellish on.
Keep an eye out on the sell threads here, some of the nicest fish on the boards are sold here, after the infatuation is over. Then it is time for the next hobby......
irishfan;3923006; said:Interesting on the fish personalities debate. If they have no personalities, why would one red devil love interacting with other fish while his brother would kill anything put in the tank? They should both have the same basic "instincts"?
But yes some have more "personality" than others.
Norbert;3923143; said:There seems to be two different discussions going on...
one seems to be dealing with the monetary/time extreme and the other seems to be dealing with the emotional attachment people place on their fish.
The first...monetary...what is extreme to one person may be insignificant to another, same goes for time spent on the hobby. Just because the amount someone else spends on their fish or tanks is more then you can or will spend on yours certainly doesn't make it extreme.
Also, since when is it somehow a gauge of your true fishkeeper status to keep the same fish from egg to old age? There are some people, I include myself in this group, that are relatively new to the type of fish most people on this site keep...if a fish seems interesting to me and I have the means to purchase and keep the fish, does that mean I'm somehow obligated to keep that fish for life? Don't be ridiculous. Sometimes I purchase a fish and return it to the store within a week...others I may keep for years, depends on the fish and has nothing to do with my commitment to the hobby. Again just because you are satisfied with 1 tank, 2 cichlids and the same plant for the next 15 years does not make you a more serious or commited hobbiest then the person that is still experimenting with what fish interest them.
As far as the whole fish vs dog vs child argument, again, it's relative to the individual. A person that does not have a dog or a child may attach the same level of emotional commitment to their fish that you do to your dog...or your child. Who are you or anyone else to tell a person what is acceptable for them to feel?