Thank you, he is a beast.
Thank you. Come March I’ll have had him for two years. I got him at 2”. My big female was already 5-6” or so when I got him. And I didn’t introduce my little female till they got moved into the 135 and my male was a year old. I got lucky and everyone is getting along with just short bouts of aggression, never anything too bad. But for a while when I first got my male I have to separate him from my big female. She whooped his butt and still nips him even though he is bigger then her now.
It will forever be a war with her challenging him.
I’d take everyone’s suggestion of buying a group to let them pair off. Things should go much smoother that way no matter what cichlid you pick.