Thank you, that was kinda what i thought.I ended up selling off most of my upper jaws and I found agression wether wild caught or captive born was not really an issue. The upper jaws except for ornate seem to be a bit more on the mild side. With my lower jaw whole different story, they establish a pecking order like cichlids and there seems to be the alpha which in my tank is my endli. Some tail bites here and there and a little chase and bite but thats about it. Here is where the numbers help. It does spread agression and no single fish gets the brunt of it.
Here is my thought and id appreciate your input on this:
As this is the first time with these type of fish, im thinking of 1st- staying with upper jaws as they are a bit milder and i am on the learning curve with them. 2nd- my origional plan was to have 3 together in a tank and as i can already see my 150 will go towards the lower jaws id like (as they get 2x the size) i can easily set up a 125 for them as a permanent home and learn the habits and lifestyle of the species b4 getting into the larger, more aggressive ones. (Dont buy a pitbull if youve never owed a puppy lol)
3rd- (heres the biggest confusion) should i keep them gender specific as well?