Going based off the anal fin. In "most" cases, the male will have a pointy anal fin, while female will have a rounded anal fin.
In this pic, the male mono (left), female orino (right). Notice how the left cichlas anal fin is pointed, and the right cichla anal fin is rounded.
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I've seen those bass before.
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