116;2104649; said:
If you walk around thinking you know more than everyone else because you've had the same herps for 20 years, you're never going to learn anything. The people I take advice from around here are actually pretty young.
Very Correct..however..me thinks this was a little hipercritical.
(And I am NOT arguing so please REFRAIN from the insults this time..lets be mature enough to discuss here).
You know I think what the problem is, is you all are saying this, but whos realising it? There is quite a few people walking round with their heads up their arse on this forum Yes. Does it get them anywhere? Nope. Will they learn anything new? Nope. So you are right..but I think you come across as the above in your posts..whether you like it or not. You seem to have chilled out a little..which is cool..a much better contribution to the forum, but running around telling people your quote above whilst saying to members 'I am the superior herp keeper' because I own 'such & such' is very hipercritical.
Who cares eh? Who cares who thinks who is better. Its getting beyond silly.
We all have to agree we do things differently. Jason might keep his animals on natural substrate, and you might keep yours in sterile conditions (newspaper or kitchen towel) but if done right both are just as good..both get the desired result for THAT owner. If done right I'll add. So who are we to tell somebody they are wrong if they do something different but it totally works for them?
How about we all cool it. Lets
ALL stop acting like snobs here. Lets
ALL stop running round with 'your wrong I'm right' and the 'superior herpkeeper' attitude, cause to be honest, it's been done before, and got very boring quickl, and it makes people lose their respect for you. Lets
ALL get off this stupid defense mode whenever somebody gives us advice we are not sure about/don't quite agree with. If this is what our hobby has come to, its a damn shame.
Forums are sopposed to be for us all to talk and chat, and to teach eachother new things. Any Think-They-Know-It-Alls don't really have a place here as its about learning.One thing I'm sure of..I'm going to be open to all advice (with a little research) aslong as I haven't tried it before and it hasn't worked for me.
Come on guys, drop the attitude!
116 - Before you accuse me of being abit 'sore' about the convo that has long gone like you have with others when they've replied to you. No, I'm not. I couldn't care less because I don't hold grudges. Just because we did not agree at one time does not mean I will stop participating in conversations with my personal opinions. I just feel for EVERYONE this has got off to a bad start...so I'm speaking up. Lets hope we can both refrain from a slanging match..because I really haven't got a problem with you..we disagreed once end of.