I always took for granted that our BGK was a male because it is the most powerful fish in the tank and moves like the king, but after reading various threads, I am realizing that HE may be a SHE. My GK is approximately 16 years of age, but he/she is only about 12" or 13" long. He/she is in a 75 gal. community tank...with only a few smaller normal fish (Betta, Cory, gold fish, tetra, some barbs, some black skirts etc.) as tank mates.
I think that it is interesting when we (hmmm..."I"...
) put human traits on my fish. For example, our BGK is really gentle and keeps his/her cave really clean...gives it a sweep a couple of times every day etc. and loves to snuggle in the palm of my hand or twirl around in a vertical position while in my fingers form a cave pointing down.
(sorry if there is a whole thread about this there that I have missed, just please direct me to it)
I think that it is interesting when we (hmmm..."I"...

(sorry if there is a whole thread about this there that I have missed, just please direct me to it)