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JakeH;3180089; said:
DO NOT SHOW HER YOUR POST!!!!! You already showed her your sensitive side & it didnt go well. Change tactics. Chloe, you're gonna get our boy canned fo sho'!
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:ROFL::ROFL::ROFL:
 
cichlaguapote;3180122; said:
She has to like you for you. You have to decide whether you're really sorry about the other night or think you were right about her treating you crappy and are just apologizing because you miss her.


IMO
It's been said already but girls dislike guys with no confidence. Especially early in the relationship. It's ok not to have confidence. Just don't let girls know that you don't by giving them the signs.

I would apologize(you already did) but tell her exactly how you feel about how you acted. Straight forward. Don't sugar coat it. Admit you acted like an idiot and are sorry(sounds like you have already). Don't over apologize though. Again just in my experiance no more than twice.

After you've done that don't dwell on it. Nothing worse than dwelling on a bad time. Feel out the relationship, if it feels like you can work through it then try to bring it back to where it was with genuine conversation about you guys, maybe a witty joke here and there.

Early relationships can be a game to get your mate to notice/think about you. But if it was meant to be then it was meant to be.
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EXACTLY.
 
JakeH;3180089; said:
DO NOT SHOW HER YOUR POST!!!!! You already showed her your sensitive side & it didnt go well. Change tactics. Chloe, you're gonna get our boy canned fo sho'!
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lol im a woman, i no what we like.
she wouldnt look at it as pity. she would look at it 'he realises he screwed up, just wants to b friends, il think about it'
 
Gotta tease the fish so it takes the bait. Once it takes the bait....POW! Set the hook & reel her in. Its all a game my friend. Love & feelings come later. I'm not a cynic or a player or anything.... Girls are just REALLY good at sabotaging their own healthy relationships in favor of mystery & drama. Try this combo: 50% good guy, 25% bad boy & 25% mystery.
 
chloe;3180142; said:
lol im a woman, i no what we like.
she wouldnt look at it as pity. she would look at it 'he realises he screwed up, just wants to b friends, il think about it'
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Maybe across the pond over there... Ol' Boy lives in SOCAL!! He is gonna have to play the game, because obviously she is...
 
I def would NOT show her the post :screwy:. Write her a separate message if anything, but don't apologize anymore. Give it time IMO and play it cool.
 
thanks, guys / girl.

i cheated in a way... cuz one of my friends who is our mutual friend has pretty much told me what i was afraid to hear. she wants to have a quick coffee with me later, which is i guess the 'bye bye' talk. i know saying and writing this is self defeating, but it's almost kind of difficult going into battle when you know the war was lost already, you know?

is there any sense at all telling her anything that is raging inside of me? i guess playing the cool and confident thing, as awesome as it would be, pretty much is something i am not sure i can play now especially when i know my fate.

i appreciate the thought you guys have put into this and the advice you are giving me. i promise i'll come out of this a better person.

thanks for listening to a broken hearted fool...
 
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