I can only hope! I mean, after I burn my bras the girls will inevitably end up around my knees, they'll be nothing but lonely cat toys!
Actually there have been studies that show neither gender gravitate towards toys assigned to their gender. What I don't understand is how you think you get to decide what is and isn't a slur when you aren't a part of the group its directed towards. And youre right, you shouldn't feel bad about being a white male, but you should realize that there are privileges associated with it. You are overrepresented in politics, high paying professions, and many other fields.