my Fiance has been wanting a tank for years.. never got up the nerve to jump into it ( he thought he wasn't gonna have the time) I can now thank him for the florida gar, silver arrowana, and TSN we recently aquired... he's learned how to feed the tanks I have and is learning some of the finer points of filter maintence, and helps me with water changes. he thinks my Fire eels are "awesome" and wants to get more once we upgrade our tanks. I shake my head.. as I've always wanted one or 2 big tanks.. his main goal is to get a pair of rays eventually, and more gars. and add a RTC to our collection. looks like my guppy tanks will be cleaned out for grow-outs. I just laugh, and shake my head sometimes. granted he comments on me "being good" when we walk outta LFS and I only have feeders or food in my hands.