Dogs and infants

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just so you all know. the dog knows the baby already. thats not the issue. i dont have a problem introducing. but its the motherinlaw that is putting the baby close to the dog because its cute.

i dont care if the dog is around or whatever. i just dont want the dog up in my baby's face. this is the issue.
 
Nekojin;1998002; said:
just so you all know. the dog knows the baby already. thats not the issue. i dont have a problem introducing. but its the motherinlaw that is putting the baby close to the dog because its cute.

i dont care if the dog is around or whatever. i just dont want the dog up in my baby's face. this is the issue.

Then definitely stand your ground.
 
Seems to me that the problem is the mother in law not the dogs. You are right on this one no way anyone should be putting any baby in any dogs face for ANY reason. Thats like the michael jackson holding the baby over the balcony thing. Yeah nothing happend, but it coulda!! and thats the problem!
 
Nekojin;1997583; said:
well i could get on a whole discussion on how i think its rediculous to treat animals like humans. to each his own. i dont really care what you do with your dog as long as it doesnt affect me or my family.

but i digress. i dont trust dogs. especially other people's dogs. i dont want it up in my baby's face. if she has a problem with that, then i have a problem with her.
Then don't go over there. I personally want my kids, nieces and nephews to grow up not being afraid of animals. When a parent reacts like that then it cause the child to react like that, thus developing a fear of dogs or animals in general.
I agree with not wanting them licking my face or their faces but you correct the dog when it does it.
 
I agree with the OP, not wanting a dog in their baby's face.. The dog may be wonderful, and amazingly sweet and gentle with the baby, but do you really want to find out when the kid is that small?
I grew up with dogs, from a tiny baby, so did my neice and nephew, who lived with us, and we NEVER had a problem.
I would never, ever leave a small child or baby around ANY animal.. Well, I think the goldfish are almost ok. Dogs see children as threats alot of the time, like said before, they don't see them as something cute a cuddly, they see them as a member of the pack, and a very low member most of the time. They are small, and seem to constantly challenge dogs because babies have a habit of STARING into their eyes, on all fours, and then grabbing their face/ear/tail ect. which a dog will see as an attack. Even a large dog just spinning around to give a bite to say "GO AWAY!" can kill a baby.
Also, there was a case I remember about a very, very love family st. bernard who grew up with a child, when the kid was 4-5 the dog attacked and killed him while the parents were god knows where.
After the dog was put down they found a broken off pencil in the dogs ear canal, which, as you might guess, must have caused the dog serious pain.
I love dogs(and all animals) with all my heart, but I see them as animals, not people. you can still love a dog and not treat them as a human, which in the long run will only cause problems anyway.
 
i would trust my child's life to our gsd............. I would never ask you to do the same or anybody else's baby/child. Its not the same and 'your' child might not be family to somebody else's dog. Nor would leave a small child unsupervised with a dog...EVER

Our two dogs get jealous of each other........ i wouldnt want to see a child/baby to be seen by a dog as needing to be put in its place ( pack rank)

Stick with your maternal instincts they seem solid to me.


When an adult dog reprimands a puppy they grab it by the throat and the puppy instinctually freezes and the adult dog backs off lesson taught.

When a dog grabs a human child by the neck for a reprimand a child will kick and scream........dog applies more pressure and the child fights more.......... dog bites down harder ....lesson never learned
 
I'll keep dogs and skip the kids............it eliminates any issues.
 
rallysman;1998599; said:
I'll keep dogs and skip the kids............it eliminates any issues.

Lol those are my thoughts. Well I mean they both poop in the house and smell pretty bad. But at least you can get your dog fixed, don't have to worry about grandchildren.
 
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