dont think ill be here much longer.......

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IMO you should get your GED first.

Making it easier to find a job and save some money.

Making it way easier to move out, and have the ability to cover any unexpected expenses. Then presto! You are independent and you can visit/help your grandparents. They will still love you and they will be very proud of you I'm sure.

I know it won't be easy. I've been spending the last month trying to find some sort of fish-related job in Tampa. Even with a degree it's difficult these days. Hang in there and don't let it get you down. Things are harder to do and deal with when you are negative.
 
I lost my Nan (grandma) in 07 man you should spend as much time with them as possible and be a sport about it, if your not working make them dinner, and help out, trust me you wont live to regret a low post count on MFK but you'll regret losing a family member.
 
You screw around too much. Life is really not that hard, but man I've read a couple of your threads and you always seem to have a problem.
 
I believe you need to speak to that charity about the abuse you are suffering at the hands of your grandparents and how the charity can help sort your life out. It is abuse, mental abuse, that they are inflicting on you.
Blaming you for a disease which no one but the sufferer can make worse is abuse, especially when they know you don't know any better, and they also know its torturing you to make you withold waterchanges for a month. Don't be fooled they know what they are doing to you and they are slowly making you feel worthless, the tone of your posts has changed dramatically.

Speak to that charity before you do anything else, speak to that charity to try and turn your life around. Once you have a plan only then can you begin to move forward, it is no good moving forward blindly.
 
An unemployed high school drop out that has moved 3 times in 8 months and is planning a 4th move.

Dude, get a clue. You are blowing off the one chance you have at stability. Shut up and accept their rules. Its their house.

Look at your situation, its clearly one that is packed full of past mistakes. YOUR mistakes. YOU put yourself as an addict to nicotine that can't stay in an apartment and lacks even a most basic HS education.

Your grandparents are willing to make major sacrifices to help you and you keep blowing them off because they aren't letting you live the way you want to . Look around you....living the way you want is the reason you are in the situation you are in. Shut up, accept the help that you obviously in need of and let them guide you into making good decisions.

Loose the expensive habbit that is desroying your health (Cigs), get an education, get a job, stop going out late at night. The only thing you get from going out late at night is bad habits. You aren't old enough to drink, and you can't hold a job if you are too tired from gallivanting all night long. On top of that. being up all night long upsets the people trying so hard to help you.

Go to bed at night. Get up in the morning. Act like a responsible adult. Clean up after yourself, follow the rules of whom ever's house you are living in. Resepct your elders, they know a LOT more about living than you do. If you could stop mouthig off and whining about how hard your life is, you might see that.

Your fish tanks should be seriously low on your priority list. Having good living habits needs to be a LOT higher.
 
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An unemployed high school drop out that has moved 3 times in 8 months and is planning a 4th move.

Dude, get a clue. You are blowing off the one chance you have at stability. Shut up and accept their rules. Its their house.

Look at your situation, its clearly one that is packed full of past mistakes. YOUR mistakes. YOU put yourself as an addict to nicotine that can't stay in an apartment and lacks even a most basic HS education.

Your grandparents are willing to make major sacrifices to help you and you keep blowing them off because they aren't letting you live the way you want to . Look around you....living the way you want is the reason you are in the situation you are in. Shut up, accept the help that you obviously in need of and let them guide you into making good decisions.

Loose the expensive habbit that is desroying your health (Cigs), get an education, get a job, stop going out late at night. The only thing you get from going out late at night is bad habits. You aren't old enough to drink, and you can't hold a job if you are too tired from gallivanting all night long. On top of that. being up all night long upsets the people trying so hard to help you.

Go to bed at night. Get up in the morning. Act like a responsible adult. Clean up after yourself, follow the rules of whom ever's house you are living in. Resepct your elders, they know a LOT more about living than you do. If you could stop mouthig off and whining about how hard your life is, you might see that.

Your fish tanks should be seriously low on your priority list. Having good living habits needs to be a LOT higher.
Well said. Its time to heed some very good advise LBF....You have to get your priorities inline. Your a good person, now its time to do the right things or your life will only get worse...
 
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