dont think ill be here much longer.......

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livebearerfreak;4375318; said:
um, i do cut the grass ( more then my aunt and everyone one else besides my grandad ) i do the dishes, i do help around alot..... so you saying i shouldnt have a free rid? well what about my 19 year old cousin? she desnt have a job, neither does her bf, she doesnt even help around the house at all ( neither does my aunt ) with no job and all how is she suppose to buy stuff for her baby thats due this month? well let me tell you... she is relying on her mom to do all that cause shes to lazy to get a job ( she to doesnt have her ged OR hsed ) heck 90 percent of the family dropped out of school..
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I am not fully caught up on this thread. But let me give some advice.

Life is not fair. Not in the least. One way to cope with that is to just accept it.

Your aunt (?) only pays 200/month, and you are angry about that. For whatever reason, she and your grandparents agreed to that. You also agreed to pay 400 in a seperate negotiation (no one put a gun to your head). Maybe since your aunt has kids to support, grandparents decided to charge her less. It really doesn't matter. You grandparents are the landlords they decide the terms. Instead of getting angry about it, just accept it.

It looks like you are trying to get your life together. That's good. If you get your life together, living with grandparents is just a short term thing.. No need getting all stressed out about the percieved inequalities.. Don't stir the pot and make things worse by complaining to your grandparents. I think 400 for renting month to month is a good deal.
 
naw didnt get the tank. deciding to save up instead. got 55 buxs saved up so far. with another 25 next week and the following week ( depeinding on how much i get a week )
 
well depending on if i get this job at gordys in town. if i do ill be putting my whole check in the bank and just use the money i get every week for the following week ( the SSI money )
 
Lepisosteus platyrhincus;4370375; said:
ok let me explain it to u.

U cant do a thing to hurt his diabeties except not let him eat. ur not doin a thing to him. I severly doubt he is "dieing" from it.

If he eats and moniters his blood sugar than he should be fine. issues arrise when people do not monitor their blood sugar, dont go to the doc and dont follow a diet. its a very manageable diese that u are NOT causing it to act up
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thats not entirely correct...

stress causes the body to compensate by releasing hormones like cortisol and epinephrine. These affect increased blood glucose levels. Think about the fight or fight response. The parasympathetic nervous system causes a change in your metabolism to prepare for a burst of activity (eg. fight or flight). You can't do either very well when your hypoglycemic and your body compensates accordingly. In a healthy person this doesn't cause any real problems. In a person with diabetes mellitus this can lead to hyperglycemia which could result in an exacerbation of the disease such as diabetic ketoacidosis which could result in coma.

source: I'm an RN I manage people's DM everyday for a living.
 
livebearerfreak;4458980; said:
well hes good with his blood level, moniters it everyday, takes shots everyday.
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what does it normally run? what kind of insulin does he take? How many units does he get in each dose/daily? I'an idea m no physician but I can give you an idea of how he's doing with these data.


at any rate the other poster was correct in that his diet, drug management, and exercise level are much more important than the occasional stressor for determining how well he's managing his DM.
 
another rant!

ok woke up at 1 pm ( grandmother said it was 2, she likes lieing about the time. ) and grandad was gone, went to the dump to throw a few things away, truck broke down so grandmother asked me to go see if the keys are in the car, i went to look and couldnt find them and came back in to tell her, 5 mins later grandad walks in so she asked him where the keys were to the car and he said there in the adviser ( looked at the driver side adviser and couldnt find them ) so i got chewed out, meanwhile grandad got a ride back to the house to get the car so we left to go get his truck all the while grandmohther was just watching and telling me what to do ( ugh she can do stuff herself for crying out loud. she is starting to wear out my welcome and starting to abuse the privilige of me helping! soon ill just start to blow a casket * holding alot of anger in right now * ) so we went and got the truck out from the side of the road and got it home all the while were yelling back and forth in the car.... she is starting to make me want to move again!!!

well thats it for now...
 
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