There are many "Experience" guys here, that always says: This tank is small for this, this and that fish..you should keep only this fish...the filtration is not good...and bla bla bla...
But in the same time, when I look their tanks...FULL and CROWDED of fish..all them tight, on top of another and things like that...Ok, the filtration is good and water parameters could be too...but, these kind of guys seems care with amount and no with Health Being of the fish that are being kepet ...
In the beggining, many people told me that I was crazy...but when I showed pics, and setup...they simply like it and said that was everything alright...
I don't care if someone give me adivices..they're always welcome, considering the fact that I LOVE animals and want their best...In other hand, don't come to me and start talking me trash, and IF it happens, I just ignore. ;D
agreed, do what you feel is best for your setup and fish, take advice filter thru bs and go with it, not everything will work but not everything will be a failure either.
that has happened to me often as i tend to overstock, i never take offense.