The last few posts are very well put. First off its between A (as in ONE) seller and A customer and not other sellers, I personally think only one seller needs to respond here and anyothers need to back off sellers should not be bashing other sellers its ridiculous. Second this should have been handeled privatley its between two people and thats it, none else. There are always going to be people who have extremely good experiences with someone and others who have extremely bad experiences with that same person, its life - learn from it. The ones that have a bad experience then go somewhere else. As far as I see it the seller did what he thought was in best intresest b/c he couldnt get ahold of his customer, maybe to you thats not the best option but to him at the time apparently it was, no big deal. As for the size and color of a fish they stress give them a few days maybe they will color up they are living animals being shipped in a plane - if you were that animal I am sure you would be stressed 2 (as for your friends maybe his took the plane ride better some fish/animals take things better than others.. just like humans). As for size I really wouldnt make a big deal out of the size, but thats just my opinion. Anyways this entire thing is absolutely ridiculous (even though I am posting - just make me ridiculous also) and you guys need to seriously grow up.