Stop being emotional.
I took the harsh tone with you because the folks who were telling you gently that your plan would fail weren't getting through to you. You weren't listening to them. For all intents and purposes, you have said that you have a 10 gallon tank and you're not upgrading, no way, no how. If that's the case, you're not ready to get a dynamic species of fish such as an exodon. My intention wasn't to hurt your feelings, it was to get you to listen, and it appears that I may have succeeded.
You haven't lost any respect with me or most of the other people who have been around for a while as long as you follow the advice given and make the right decision for the health and well being of the fish involved. Make the right decision and accept the fact that you're not prepared at this time to move up to dynamic predators. Your only real option at this point, if you really care for the fish, is to stick to very small species. In order to really lose the respect of this community, you'll need to throw us the proverbial middle finger, get a shoal of exodons and put them in the ten anyway. Then in a couple of weeks, you'll come back and tell us how you only have one left. You'll get angry "I told you so's" and I'll have to close the thread. Listen and learn. Everyone has to start somewhere, but unfortunately your starting point isn't suited to be with exodons.
In this thread, you're fishing for an answer you're not going to get. It's best that you embrace the reality of your situation and roll with it.
If you follow the advice that was given, you will completely earn the respect of this community. The decision is up to you.