there's also 2 4" pictus catfish, kitty fish's "kids". He helps protect them from her. THat's all. I tried putting a big 11-12 inch bala in a couple months ago, but my catfish tried eating it...had it in the catfish's mouth 3 times...didn't think we'd get him to let go. So, no big silver fish. My catfish ate many fish, but mainly bottom dwellers.
I had thought also about getting a shoal of small top dweller fish...hoping the catfish won't eat them all tho. Any other ideas on type of fish I can put in for a distraction?
Ideas are great guys, btw...thanks for the help. I really don't want to get rid of her. I'm in the process now of setting up the 20g, rearranging furniture and such...as a temp home...