There's a lot of experiences on here, but not a lot of advice... let me see if I can help.
1) 100% w/c will not restart the nitrogen cycle. Nitrobacter, Nitrosomonas, Nitrospiros and hundreds of thousands of other nitrifying bacteria like dark places with good O2 content... the water column is not one of them. If you did it right 100% w/c might work, but there are too many variables that could go wrong IMO. Primarily Temp, pH, and TDS (Total Dissolved Solids: the part of water chemistry that determines the fishes rate of osmoregulation). The only way to get this 100% right is with a couple of lab grade meters.
2)If you plants are dying, you might not have enough/the right spectrum light over it. If you are talking about a species of sp. impatiens... I don't think they are really big light hogs, so a good amount of 5k-7k lighting would be fine.
3) Many things govern growth of plants. You need to make sure that their macro/micro nutrient intake is in line with the lighting and carbon supplementing. If you don't have a lot of Carbon, but a lot of light and nutrients then the plants won't grow as much (then you see problems like too many free floating nutrients in the water that can cause algae).
4) Have you tested your water out of the tap? If it comes out with high nitrates then that problem could be solved by using a dechlor that takes care of nitrates (prime by SeaChem is the most popular... can be found at any pet store... hopefully).
Planted refuges do work, but can be a PITA to make work properly. Tell us how much light you have over the plants and go get a co2 test kit and check that out. The higher everything is the higher rate of photosynthesis, thus more growth and nutrient absorption.