If you do not want them then don't take them. QUOTE]
I agree with this.......it has to be a fish you want to keep.
Kept cons pretty much all my life.....so I'm quite familiar with them. Just housing only 2 males in a tank, IME and IMO, doesn't have a great chance of succeeding, longterm. Usually one will end up prevailing, eventually. I've had to remove a defeated male on a number of occasions in a 6 ft. 180 gal., as well as in 4 ft. tanks, when just 2 males were housed, though i have had better success with larger groups.
IME, females work much better in groups then males do. Any lesbian pairs I've had have never proved to be much, if any, problem......they claimed very, very little space and any "mating" never lasted more then a few days. Far less aggression then i have witnessed from lone male convicts....some CA male cichlids will act very much the same , whether females are present or not. Very territorial.
Anyways, if your gonna go one sex, and more then just one convict, I think you should try a group of 5 or so females. There small fish. And many, many different fish you could house with them in 90 gal.: firemouth, JD, salvini,acaras, severum, chocalate, festivum, various bottom feeders, blue gourami, paradise fish, ect.