I like toyotas for quality, though their prices have seemed to skyrocket as of late..... Their newer highlander has third row seating as well as the hybrid option. The newer 4runners also have third row seating. i have a 2000(2row), and a 2010(3 row) both are extremely reliable, but they both average between 17-21 miles per gallon. I had a friend just get a 2011 dodge van something or other, and it has all the bells and whistles, and is perfect for him, his wife, the three kids (aged 7,4,1) and a dog.... good luck!