dawn;2743803; said:
I'm not caring, I'm manly! I drink beer, look at women, throw things, and take as little showers as possible!
GF left me
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I'm not caring, I'm manly! I drink beer, look at women, throw things, and take as little showers as possible!
chin up bro, it all happens for a reason my gf/fiance broke up with me right before i moved 8 hours to go to a school that i chose so i could be with her. i know how much it sucks, but i just took all that time and such and put it into my tanks. I got more tanks and started just losing myself in caring for fish. It was the best thing i could have ever done, i mean this was like 7 some months ago, it still hurts but nothing get my mind off things like cleaning/aquascaping my tanks, doing small DIY projects and such. It keeps you busy and it's rewarding.
either way, just don't get too down. make sure each day is better than yesterday and you'll get through it.
either way, just don't get too down. make sure each day is better than yesterday and you'll get through it.
Today is better than yesterday, so it's a start. I plan to snowboard all weekend so that will take my mind off it. Like I said before, at least it wasn't a hateful breakup, it was somewhat mutual, I was getting tired of her BS and she needed to get her stuff straight, so she called it. It hurts, but at least we can still have a civil conversation with each other, we don't hate one another.
think about it atleast u wasted 4 years instead of getting married than devorced and wasting 7-20 years and 50-200 grand on a wedding and wedding rings that are no good... chin up though mn have a beer and kick back and think to yourself that your worth more in life than someone who doesnt wanna be with you...... the tank is always bigger on the other side
BigDaddyMagnum;2744616; said:
Word. Marriage is a great thing but it's better to find out whether it will work or not now then later. And you can't know what you're looking for til you know what you're not looking for.
Been there done that with a GF of a long time. Time makes it better, and you realize how lucky you are later.
This forum means that Monsterfishkeepers stick together! one gets depressed, EVERYONE helps. It's kinda comforting that people ACTUALLY care, isn't it?
