girl problems

[Ash]

uhm yeah first pick on not both.... bad advice...... and could possibly have more effects than one might think.

As for the g/f.... you said your friends say you should go out with this friend.... but do you even like her like that.... ??

How do you feel about your g/f... if you care about her great... if you think it will last then go for it.... if you dont think it will last... then put some thought into it... but not b/c of the other girl... because of how you feel about the one you are with. If you have to question yourself... the think about how you feel and what you want to do.

As for the friend... sounds to me like you are better off just staying friends and not ruining a good friendship.... on something that may not even work out.

 

[chloe]

your in a great spot, keep your existing girlfriend, then start to get more physical with your friend, tell your friend you really care about her then ask her out BAM 2 girlfriends and double the fun. playa plaaaaaa

its not like your a married man live it up

be careful they dont find out about each other.. good luck man

WOW cant seiously believe u said that
thats a horrible thing to do. i would say im pretty safe in saying that if it happened to u and u found out u would be mad...and ur mates would just take the p**s that u were too dumb to notice.

seen it happen don't go down that road. its mad disrespect for the ladies and your a punk if you think thats cool.


besides gotta watch out for gonorrhea, that's everywhere

^ perfect, hats off to you for mentioning the disrespect to ladies. thanks xxx

 

[chloe]

right, my 2cents....

andy was my best friend for 5 years, did like each other but didnt want to ruin it. so in the end we did get it together for a trial run, during which i fell pregnant and he threatened me to make sure i never had contacted him again.

we never thought it would happen, that we would b mates whatever.
i still miss him even now, i dont think of him as els dad, just as my best mate.

id say stay friends and stay with ur gf.
if its lasted a year then ur on the right track.
my relationships dont last longer than 3months.
x

 

[Danzig86]

Start a harem homeboy!!!!

 

[GudEnuf]

Harems are way overrated. Too much maintenance required. It will drain you of your energy and other resources. More is not necessarily better.

Stick to one. You'll it enjoy it more.

 

[Neervana]

dont ruin your friendship with her.. personally if it was me and i knew my best mate has a gf and then dumps her for me or tries to get with both of us it wouldnt go down well. just the fact that if your friend knows your with someone.. and then you do that.. no..

keep them both separate. carry on with your gf and dont ruin a perfectly good friendship. once you start dating your friend, its never the same after.

 

[SumoNinja]

my wife only had guy aquaintences from church and work and school when we were still dating

now that we're married, she has no guy friend(s), that's how I roll

she feels the same way

opposite sex best friend = trouble

 

[mbeatrice]

my wife only had guy aquaintences from church and work and school when we were still dating

now that we're married, she has no guy friend(s), that's how I roll

she feels the same way

opposite sex best friend = trouble

exactly..... men and woman realy cant be friends when u are already in a relationship ,doest work out to well the jealosy factor always comes in on either side....

 

[MadRussian79]

exactly..... men and woman realy cant be friends when u are already in a relationship ,doest work out to well the jealosy factor always comes in on either side....

That's just stupid. If you can't handle her having male friends or him having female friends the whole thing needs to end. You either trust the SO to not screw around or you don't. If you don't then any travel you take will have you wondering is they are riding the neighbor, mail person, UPS person, co worker etc.

To the OP: Your pretty much powned either way. You'll wonder what if for either choice. The fact that they both think your hobby is stupid is a good reason to choose neither. Find someone that at least views it as your hobby. Otherwise she'll (either) will eventually make you choose.

 

[Kolossus]

That's just stupid. If you can't handle her having male friends or him having female friends the whole thing needs to end. You either trust the SO to not screw around or you don't. If you don't then any travel you take will have you wondering is they are riding the neighbor, mail person, UPS person, co worker etc.

To the OP: Your pretty much powned either way. You'll wonder what if for either choice. The fact that they both think your hobby is stupid is a good reason to choose neither. Find someone that at least views it as your hobby. Otherwise she'll (either) will eventually make you choose.

Well said!