Girlfriend just left me.

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Don't look at it as time invested, because many people I know do that after a breakup; almost as if those 4 years, 1 week, and 1 day are now wasted.

You just have to understand that for a relationship to work, both people have to be happy. It is for the best, because if she wasn't 100% happy, you wouldn't want her to keep going with it. It wouldn't be fair to you or her.

I'm sure you guys had an awesome time, learned some things, etc. Now you get to go off on your own and have fun meeting new girls and feel that same exciting feeling you always get when you start off with someone new...

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years too, and since we started off as great friends, I only hope that if we every part ways we remain friends. That is the best thing for you and your ex... still have someone you can share things with.

But like I said, look at it as a new opportunity. Maybe you were getting a little bored or wanting something new, well here is your chance :)
 
mike dunagan;1537889; said:
the hot chic at work that has always been nice to you...
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hahahaha


JD7's avatar HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA

That is very funny. Bruce is such a good sport.
 
Wow, sorry to hear it man. One of my friends had a girlfriend for about 2 years, when she broke up with him, he hung himself in a matter of hours. Only 20 years old, a true shame. At least is does not sound you are on this level of being broken about it. So just keep looking ahead, there are plenty of others my friend, plenty.
 
Chin up, and get over it.

I had a GF for over 3 years and she called me crying because of something she had done

Game over. I haven't spoken to her in over 5 years and that makes it even better.



If you've been together this long and she called it off, chances are she's unfaithful. Remove yourself from her. It will be tough as hell for a while, but stay strong. No one that really wants to be with someone needs to "find themselves" or "take a break". That's BS talk for "I want to screw around before I settle down". Find someone that's compatible with you and gives to peanut decorated ****s. She may find that the Dbags she's going to chase aren't worth it and come crawling back, but kick her to the curb.
Be yourself, give respect, and you'll find a respectful partner. Just don't take her ****.


If you're really to blame I retract my previous statement.
If she's a superficial "I want to be the a sorostitute because that's the cool thing" chick, then ignore her forever.
 
rallysman;1537985; said:
Chin up, and get over it.

I had a GF for over 3 years and she called me crying because of something she had done

Game over. I haven't spoken to her in over 5 years and that makes it even better.



If you've been together this long and she called it off, chances are she's unfaithful. Remove yourself from her. It will be tough as hell for a while, but stay strong. No one that really wants to be with someone needs to "find themselves" or "take a break". That's BS talk for "I want to screw around before I settle down". Find someone that's compatible with you and gives to peanut decorated ****s. She may find that the Dbags she's going to chase aren't worth it and come crawling back, but kick her to the curb.
Be yourself, give respect, and you'll find a respectful partner. Just don't take her ****.


If you're really to blame I retract my previous statement.
If she's a superficial "I want to be the a sorostitute because that's the cool thing" chick, then ignore her forever.
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and there you go. :thumbsup:
 
Easy...if you had a girlfriend...there's always another girl that wants you. If she doesn't know you borke up, bang her and then you can tell her that you guys broke up. Makes me feel better after every break up.
 
benzjamin13;1538001; said:
Easy...if you had a girlfriend...there's always another girl that wants you. If she doesn't know you borke up, bang her and then you can tell her that you guys broke up. Makes me feel better after every break up.
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I like the way you think. :D Genius.
 
rallysman;1537985; said:
Chin up, and get over it.

I had a GF for over 3 years and she called me crying because of something she had done

Game over. I haven't spoken to her in over 5 years and that makes it even better.



If you've been together this long and she called it off, chances are she's unfaithful. Remove yourself from her. It will be tough as hell for a while, but stay strong. No one that really wants to be with someone needs to "find themselves" or "take a break". That's BS talk for "I want to screw around before I settle down". Find someone that's compatible with you and gives to peanut decorated ****s. She may find that the Dbags she's going to chase aren't worth it and come crawling back, but kick her to the curb.
Be yourself, give respect, and you'll find a respectful partner. Just don't take her ****.


If you're really to blame I retract my previous statement.
If she's a superficial "I want to be the a sorostitute because that's the cool thing" chick, then ignore her forever.
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Seriously I think I might have misunderstood her if she is that way because thats the exact thing I was straying from.


The main thing I am worried about is finding a girl in college (or life in general) who isn't all those bad things you just explained...Its like they are all the same but just wearing a different skin. I think at any given time if you read any girls mind at the university they are probably thinking "facebook, MTV, getting drunk". I don't think thats really girlfriend material, at least not for me. I want someone open minded with an actual personality, someone who is unique and funny, clever and logical, someone with integrity.


Well on the bright side at least I can just have more money to spend on fish and more time to spend skateboarding.
 
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