Girlfriend just left me.

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R1_Ridah;1539677; said:
Oh..no...she didn't feed you that line of, "It's not you, it's me", speech... =-(

At least she did it kindly. She obviously wants to move on, so you should do the same. It will probably just hurt you more if you talk to her. Specially if you hear she's seeing someone else.

"Anyway, I appreciate her doing this before we got too serious though"

I though you were with her for 4 yrs? You don't think this was a serious relationship? Were you guys just friends w/benefits? 4yrs sounds like a serious relationship.
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Yeah 4 years is long, but it would have been much more difficult if we were you know, married, or had children, or something like that.
 
princess;1539652; said:
i've only had 1 relationship lasted for 3 years....i found out he had a 1yr old daughter.
bummer huh still not really over it. havn't had anyone else in the 9month sooooo yeah grrrr

altho i'd like to say go sleep around ....it won't make u feel better.
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Sorry that sucks pretty bad, probably a lot more than mine.

Yeah I don't think that sleeping around will really help much, in fact, it seems sleeping around causes more problems or complications.

Plus embarassing myself to another girl in bed probably won't make me feel much better anyway!
 
R1_Ridah;1539693; said:
Exactly, that is why you should just move. Man, with technology now a days you don't even need to leave the house to meet women...how old are you?
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Actually that is kind of a double edged sword. THere was this girl on xbox who really really really liked me (I had absolutely no idea). SHe was from NY or something. She would play a bunch of Gears of War with us, she would win tournaments for it in NY, she was pretty cool like every other friend I had on xbox live, but my friend was like man you better watch out that girl is sort of strange. He was someone I had met when I first made my gamertag like 3 years ago. I listened to him and sure enough she was I guess talking to my friends asking where I lived and stuff and she wanted to come meet me. Keep in mind my gamertag was "I Love Katie" and she still was trying to come find me. She would ask all these weird questions like if I would talk to her if I met her in person. I just appeared offline for a LOOOOONG time. It turned out she met some guy and went to England without telling her parents to stay with him for a few days and it apparently went sour. I think she was crazy.
 
women are definately confusing, they should come with a manual but they dont, set her free, if it was meant to be she will be yours again, if not, there are plenty other fish out there that will confuse you and be irrational from time to time
 
kendog1;1539708; said:
women are definately confusing, they should come with a manual but they dont, set her free, if it was meant to be she will be yours again, if not, there are plenty other fish out there that will confuse you and be irrational from time to time
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:ROFL:
 
PoopSmart;1539700; said:
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Bro..18...when I was 18 I had like 10 girls to choose from.

You have to play the field man. Like bowling pins you need to have them lined up in a row to knock em down till your left with the 1 that is solid.

I'm not saying to go out and whore yourself but there is an admiral way of seeing various women without being a womanizer. As long as you let it be known that you are in the dating seen and not lead them to believe they are the only one.

Is she your one and only girlfriend you ever had?
 
Given that you are only 18, youve still got your entire life ahead of you. Enjoy it....
 
18?!!??! Rally was 100% in his first post. ( wanted to quote but didn't go back). My ex wanted to see if she could survive on her own when we were 20. So when she was done passing IT around and realized that I was what she wanted, twas too late. She told me a few years back she knew she would have been in a better position in life if she stayed.

I spoke to her a few minutes ago. Life went on. We are still friends. I help her when i can. At 20 it was the worst pain i have ever felt. Learned from it though. Its better that at 18 she said goodbye then at 32 you comming home to the mailman rasing your 3 kids. I did alot of traveling and had alot of fun before i met my wife. I will do more traveling and have more fun after she disappears too. Trust me its not that bad.
 
R1_Ridah;1539722; said:
Bro..18...when I was 18 I had like 10 girls to choose from.

You have to play the field man. Like bowling pins you need to have them lined up in a row to knock em down till your left with the 1 that is solid.

I'm not saying to go out and whore yourself but there is an admiral way of seeing various women without being a womanizer. As long as you let it be known that you are in the dating seen and not lead them to believe they are the only one.

Is she your one and only girlfriend you ever had?
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I have probably had around 10 girlfriends if I had to take a guess.

I just think that I can "knock them down" in my mind. Sure there are girls that I could say, "Hey be my girlfriend," but whats the point? I know we will disagree on everything and probably won't have anything in common or she won't have a personality whatsoever, but they would be my "girlfriend". Thats basically how my past relationships were.

I mean I can kind of gauge how a girl is going to be by talking to them and getting to know them. I don't think you can get to know a girl better by having sex with them or anything like that so I just talk to girls and befriend them, but I havn't found someone that I would really see myself with. I don't want to waste my time with girls who just want sex so you don't have to worry about me womanizing anyone.
 
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