Girlfriend just left me.

[Nic]

Bro..18...when I was 18 I had like 10 girls to choose from.

You have to play the field man. Like bowling pins you need to have them lined up in a row to knock em down till your left with the 1 that is solid.

I'm not saying to go out and whore yourself but there is an admiral way of seeing various women without being a womanizer. As long as you let it be known that you are in the dating seen and not lead them to believe they are the only one.

Is she your one and only girlfriend you ever had?

yup.... seriously your best years are starting... they get better at 21 when the club scene starts be single and sew you oats.... plenty of women out there... whats wrong with being a whore joey???

 

[Greenaveli]

Bro..18...when I was 18 I had like 10 girls to choose from.

You have to play the field man. Like bowling pins you need to have them lined up in a row to knock em down till your left with the 1 that is solid.

I'm not saying to go out and whore yourself but there is an admiral way of seeing various women without being a womanizer. As long as you let it be known that you are in the dating seen and not lead them to believe they are the only one.

Is she your one and only girlfriend you ever had

I agree. Although feel free to whore out. Just don't be a jerk. Tell them you're not ready and just want to be a whore. You are 18 in college. God bless.

If I had made it to college I would have gotten VD and made John Tucker Must Die 2: Green Goes to College.

 

[PoopSmart]

18?!!??! Rally was 100% in his first post. ( wanted to quote but didn't go back). My ex wanted to see if she could survive on her own when we were 20. So when she was done passing IT around and realized that I was what she wanted, twas too late. She told me a few years back she knew she would have been in a better position in life if she stayed.

I spoke to her a few minutes ago. Life went on. We are still friends. I help her when i can. At 20 it was the worst pain i have ever felt. Learned from it though. Its better that at 18 she said goodbye then at 32 you comming home to the mailman rasing your 3 kids. I did alot of traveling and had alot of fun before i met my wife. I will do more traveling and have more fun after she disappears too. Trust me its not that bad.

Yeah I know Levi really explained a great example. You do too. I mean everyone else goes through this stuff. I just wanted to know what other people went through too, maybe share some experiences similar to mine (like you just said), and that helps out a lot. Honestly, this thread has made me feel a lot better.

Its just the fact that I am hearing all these things about people going through the same situation and how they cope with it actually help me cope.

My good friend just called me too and told me his girlfriend of about 2 years cut it off a month ago. I hadn't talked to him since then and I told him about mine. We had a laugh about it.

Thanks a lot though everyone. I feel tons better than when I posted this.

 

[unknownuza13]

We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.

Stay single for a while and enjoy life man. I'm 27 and have been single for the past two years or so and I am at a very happy point in my life right now. At least half of my buddy's are already married and I feel like half of them just settled or caved to society's pressure of fitting into the system. You should find someone and get married by this age because that is what is acceptable. I wonder why our divorce rates are so high.

 

[frasertheking]

I ain't no emo child.

thank god not a good root

 

[hbluehunter]

I have to agree with Nic.. Your best years are still to come. You'll find a whole new league of girls/ladies once you hit 21..

 

[R1_Ridah]

I have probably had around 10 girlfriends if I had to take a guess.

I just think that I can "knock them down" in my mind. Sure there are girls that I could say, "Hey be my girlfriend," but whats the point? I know we will disagree on everything and probably won't have anything in common or she won't have a personality whatsoever, but they would be my "girlfriend". Thats basically how my past relationships were.

I mean I can kind of gauge how a girl is going to be by talking to them and getting to know them. I don't think you can get to know a girl better by having sex with them or anything like that so I just talk to girls and befriend them, but I havn't found someone that I would really see myself with. I don't want to waste my time with girls who just want sex so you don't have to worry about me womanizing anyone.

At 18 you don't need a girlfriend. Why think that in order to be with the opposite sex they must be your girlfriend?

Two bulls were atop a hill looking down on all the female cows. One bull said, "I'd like to walk down there and [gravel-wash] that one cow. The other replied, "why not walk down there and [gravel-wash] em all".

Point of the story is don't settle for one when you can have a variety. Sex is the not everything but at your age you should get it out of your system so that when you do marry that special person you will never have that "WHAT IF" thoughts.

Live your life man & enjoy.

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[frasertheking]

We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.

yeah i am 16 and one year ago i would not be saying this

homosexuals have the easier life after the hole growing up teen stage

girls are hard to understand and seems it does not get any easier

 

[R1_Ridah]

We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.

Stay single for a while and enjoy life man. I'm 27 and have been single for the past two years or so and I am at a very happy point in my life right now. At least half of my buddy's are already married and I feel like half of them just settled or caved to society's pressure of fitting into the system. You should find someone and get married by this age because that is what is acceptable. I wonder why our divorce rates are so high.

Yup.. what keeps my wife and I together are the hardships we have faced through the course of our relationship. Together we have built nothing out of something special. Marriage is not for everyone but when you do find that special person it's all worth it. I've been with my wife for 12 yrs. Everyday it feels as if it was just last week we met. That's the best feeling.

One time I had asked a person who was in their golden years of their relationship what the secret was. They told me it was the arguments..LOL..

 

[R1_Ridah]

yup.... seriously your best years are starting... they get better at 21 when the club scene starts be single and sew you oats.... plenty of women out there... whats wrong with being a whore joey???

Nothing wrong with being a manwhore...as long as it fits the time of your life

At 18 is the best years to be a "MANWHORE"...