Girlfriend wants a fish in my tank... any recommendations?

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Carefree_Dude;5125064; said:
She doesn't like to admit she's using him and claims she's trying not to.

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Wow... is there at least a timeline for her to be moving in with you?
 
Just my 2 cents....these types of relationships seldom work out. When it starts with a lie, it usually ends with one. If your just in it for fun, thats one thing. But if you are actually starting to have feelings for this girl, then you should watch yourself. This could end very badly.
 
PSU21Reef;5124283; said:
If my girlfriend lived 100 miles away with her ex, the last thing I would be worried about is a fish for her.

This!
 
The whole debt thing just rocked my world. Bad news there myman! My best friend tells me everyday how he wishes that he was as smart as I was and not taken the plunge with a financial Chernobyl. There is a reason that she/ they are in such debt!

He just paid $1,500 in settlement for selling his house that they bought 16 years ago. How's that for equity. Word to the wise, have fun and hit it whenever, but don't get serious.

As for HER fish in YOUR tank: FEEDERS!
 
Just so you know she's probably not getting her bills paid for nothing, he's getting something in return.
 
I really don't wanna sound like a f***, but i think i speak from a guys point of you which all guys would accept.

If i lived with my ex-fiancee, she would only stay if something was going one, i mean a few months of nothing would be clear that it wont work out and id have her out!.

anyway, back to the fish, if she doesnt live with you then tell her she cant tell you what to stock! get a minnow, show it to her than say it got eaten!

Don't ruin your tank mate!
 
There are some serious tools out there...but seriously, run from this girl. She's using both of you. Nothing good ever comes out of affairs...why isn't she with the ex? If she is living with him, he is paying her bills, maybe they are sleeping together on occasion, and they are telling friends and family they are still together-sounds like she's playing you man. Does the ex know about you?

Sounds like a bad/tough situation, sorry.
 
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