Got a Problem,With a Girl :/

[RiverMonsterFisher]

Im 14 too and have a gf

 

[RiverMonsterFisher]

Okay So basically i went out with this girl last year and she told me that she likes me again. The only problem is, is that a few of my friends dislike her for some reason. They say she's an Ahole but she is not she is really Nice we get on great. Im afraid my Mates might not respect me as much as they did if i did go out with her. We get on great and she is good looking She broke up with me last time. Oh and im 14 BTW

I right there with ya bro that is being 14

 

[OddBallKeeper]

Wow and to think only 3 days ago i was all about gettin girls n now im confused if i should try get 1

 

[OddBallKeeper]

And yeah its not all about looks. Thats the whole reason im not going out with her is because of what my mates think of her personality.

 

[aclockworkorange]

She broke it off last time cos i didnt really see her that much. But like i hang around with her much more now. UGGGHH!!! Life is so complicated :/

If you think this is complicated, I've got some bad news about the rest of your life bud...

 

[aclockworkorange]

Dude, you guys are 14. It's not that complicated. Just sleep with hot underage girls while it's legal. Do it a lot. All different kinds of girls too. Get it all out of your system, so when you get into your 20's and meet the "one," you know you're good and ready. You'll know what kind of girl you like, what works and what doesn't, etc.

I wasted way too much time in high school with relationships that were doomed from the start. I should have just had fun and studied harder. You have many years ahead of you to ruin your life with overly complicated relationships.

 

[Inglorious]

I mostly agree with what ACWO just posted, except that you're only 14 so you shouldn't be taking anything in life seriously right now. You still have a couple more years before dating starts to get serious, at your age it's only just hanging out. Feel free to do whatever you want, and if it's only three friends out of many then don't sweat it. Keep in mind though that she won't be the one and you two will break up again at some point. Don't try to hold on to relationships until you're much older and there is a chance of settling down and being with the "one".

 

[studd muffin]

14, wow, kids growing up way to fast these days. Find some legos and forget girls til high school. Goodluck!

Yes! Till high school ahaha. Going "out" is nothing if you guys only see each other at school.

 

[Deep Blue Sea]

bro's before ho's, gf's will come and go but good friends are forever

 

[Deep Blue Sea]

Yes! Till high school ahaha. Going "out" is nothing if you guys only see each other at school.

agreed thats why I waited till high school, no point if you cant pay for things with your own money or take the girl places