Every fish is different. In general though GT's are a lot more aggressive the JD's. I know ton's of people that keep severums, oscars, and JD's together. Several have tride a GT with there mix and it never worked out. I think a JD would most likely work with your fish though. Just get a young one and grow it up with them.
Just as an example. I keep a silver saum pair in with herichthy's and amphilophus types and my male silver saum even chases them some. He is very aggressive. JD's are more territorial to one small spot then really aggressive.