Thanks loads for the replies! didn't expect it to go off like this.
Literally just hand fed my ray about a minute ago, then decided to jump on this thread!. Yes Whitebait is a small fish, I feed my ray Hikari Pellets / Prawn / Whitebait / Bloodworms currently.. and he is very happy. For me personally I totally agree with it all being about fun, and getting to interact with my ray sure is fun.
I have been using the method of letting him come up to the very top of the glass. and just have the food pushed against the glass so he can cup it like mentioned. Going very well! not feeding time is all that more exciting.
The ray is a Motoro x Pearl, fair few videos of my current fish on my channel
http://www.youtube.com/user/Billybongsterhut?feature=mhee if you wanted to see him.
Thanks a lot