having a crush

[fishmamma]

EVERYBODY says there's no getting out of the friend zone.... this is NOT true... people who can't get out had no chance with the girl in the first place... I was given the friend card by this girl freshman year of college... we would hang out all the time, than one night we were hanging out with two of our friends, and they started making out... so, we looked at eachother and started as well.... then she said, you have no idea how long i wanted to do that, and since i didn't believe it she showed me texts of her and her friend (the one making out with my friend at the moment) they were both talking about me... i had no idea and had been trying to work up the courage to talk to her all semester. (like i was almost on the stalker level lol) anywho, moral of the story, be friends, if you're a cool kid, she'll know it more and more the more comfortable you get with her... I did it and we've been dating for 2 years strong... best 2 years of my life

That's really dang cute! I had a stalker once.... now he just stalks closer to me... !

 

[Fishnthehood]

Pimpin ..... your 17 years old .... no need for that love or your life talk. You need to let life happen when it comes to women. Let her date the other dude and you play the buddy role, hi and bye when you see her. Then do you. Go out with other women and give them a chance, have fun be young and have a couple of pregancy scares ... lol. The worse thing you wanna do is settle down at 18 or so and then regret the world of women you never ever got to know. The more your around women and really listen and observe them the better you'll be with them later in life. I didn't marry until 32 years old and it was the best thing I could of done. When I met my wife I was done with the games, booty calls and knew the difference between a good women and a good time. Go live life and I'm sure in 5 years she'll be there and then you can make your move ... that's if you still want to.

 

[bobblehead27]

Pimpin ..... your 17 years old .... no need for that love or your life talk. You need to let life happen when it comes to women. Let her date the other dude and you play the buddy role, hi and bye when you see her. Then do you. Go out with other women and give them a chance, have fun be young and have a couple of pregancy scares ... lol. The worse thing you wanna do is settle down at 18 or so and then regret the world of women you never ever got to know. The more your around women and really listen and observe them the better you'll be with them later in life. I didn't marry until 32 years old and it was the best thing I could of done. When I met my wife I was done with the games, booty calls and knew the difference between a good women and a good time. Go live life and I'm sure in 5 years she'll be there and then you can make your move ... that's if you still want to.

DON"T TELL HIM TO GET PREGNANCY SCARES!!!!!! THOSE ARE THE WORST!!!!! especially if it's a drunk hook up :-/ 9 times outta 10 the girl was NOT as hott as you remembered... the thought of being stuck with that for the rest of your life... EWWW... however, you're right about chillin with that love talk... if you fall in love, you fall in love, we're not saying avoid love, but stop loooking for it... you don't know enough... besides, who doesn't love a good booty call? you're missin out.... my girl is my first REAL girlfriend, like we're serious, but i'm still scared i'm too young... like i'm 19 so same age group... I really love this girl, and i'm excited to start a life together (yeah yeah yeah i know i'm too young for this, and it most likely won't work out, but both we don't plan on moving in together or anything till after college, so another year and a half, so i don't think we're rushing things...) but anyway, no matter how much i love this girl, i can't help but think im missing out on so much... and i obviously never tell her that, but she has brought it up multiple times and is afraid i'ma regret it in the future...
My point being... don't rush it, let time handle everything... if you two are meant to be, (which in all honesty probably isn't true) well than more power to you, and it'll work out at some point, but untill than, go out and live the life i (as well as many others on here i'm sure) can't live cuz we got tied down sooooo as a good friend of mine once said, **** *****es get money... (you might know him as little wayne, i know him as Dwayne) BELIEVE ME, you're way too young to be worrying about this ****... it's so much frustration. I'm sure many on here can attest to that...