The adults are having a tough time too. My female is extremely pregnant but i expect an abortion soon...
I'll be blunt...not sure why you are in denial about your water parameters.
Almost everything I have seen/read suggests Nitrate levels of 40 to 50PPM as the maximum. That's the upper limit; you should be aiming for lower. Your levels are about twice as high.
Why do you feel 80PPM and Ammonia readings of anything other than 0 are fine? Your fish are definitely showing signs of illness and your water parameters are far from ideal.
Have you considered adding Pothos to your sump to help lower those NO3 levels?
Did everyone else miss this?
Without any doubt in my mind, that is what triggered your problems. I'm an old fart and have seen water main breaks wipe out entire tanks of fish, several times over the years, when a hobbyist didn't realize that their tap water quality was not normal. When a water main is repaired all sorts of toxic metals etc can get stirred up into the water line, and my advice is to NEVER perform a water change in your tank until at least 24 hrs have passed since the repair, longer if the water quality doesn't seem like it's back to normal. Some of the crud kicked up from a water main repair will make a small spike in ammonia seem like a trip to Disneyland for a fish!
With regards to ammonia, the OP stated; .......... which can easily cause a small, but temporary, spike in ammonia - in anyones tank.
As far as nitrates, while I doubt they are the cause, the nitrates could be a LOT lower, and the high levels certainly add to stress levels in most fish. If the water lines have cleared up, start daily water changes and watch for improvement. I would personally not add Melafix, or even salt at this point. Focus on improving water quality, add carbon if need be, most toxic elements aren't easy to test for.
Good luck.
Would any of this water main crap get past whole house carbon blocks?
I've never trusted straight unfiltered tap water.
Are you filtering the tap water? IF not now, I sure as heck would be making a trip to the hardware store.......
The adults are having a tough time too. My female is extremely pregnant but i expect an abortion soon...
Would any of this water main crap get past whole house carbon blocks?
So by simply monitoring TDS coming out of the RO you can tell if the water is safe to use or not correct?
IF carbon blocks won't take out stuff like ammonia, copper, or zinc then is it safe to assume the only thing that will is an RO membrane since whole house carbon blocks are basically the same as the first few stages of RO? Or are some of the things like ammonia going to get through RO/DI? See, I feel like an idiot here cause I assume that RO strips almost everything (99% pure water) and now it seems that last 1% it misses contains an awful lot of nasty.......
I'd love a lesson on what can get through RO and what can't......
Good info Matt! Thank you!