How can she be so hurtfull?! :'(

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awdawg

awdawg

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First and foremost youngen's under 18 might not want to read this one...

So I've had the roughtest week of my life. This weekend I had to hear my girlfriend of 3 years tell me that she has cheatd on me and screwed some other guy 5 times.. This has completly torn my heart wide open. This is my first serious girlfriend, and she was a virgin when we started dating, which makes this even more of a slap in the face, especially since she has always told me she wanted me to be her only partner ever. Which was a very special thing about our relationship, it is very hard to find something like that. I cant believe how much I have done and dropped for this girl over the years just to have my heart ripped into pieces. The bard part is I still really love her, and have feelings as if I want to be with her.... Anyone else been in this situation lately? or ever...? I feel even as if I move on and try to work on finding a new girl that I'm doing something wrong, but I know to myself, even if we try to rekindle things in the future, I will never be able to see her in the same light again... Let alone not be sure if I can trust her not to hurt me again. As my online compadres that share similiar interests I feel it is okay to share this, and look forward to hearing any insight I can get from the guys and girls.

Thanks much for reading this and listening to my rants
I just wish I could be happy again, and my appetite would come back and the pain would go away.

feel free to add me to your myspace friends list if you have one
MYSPACE

Thanks a lot guys
-Adam
 
awdawg;564941; said:
First and foremost youngen's under 18 might not want to read this one...

So I've had the roughtest week of my life. This weekend I had to hear my girlfriend of 3 years tell me that she has cheatd on me and screwed some other guy 5 times.. This has completly torn my heart wide open. This is my first serious girlfriend, and she was a virgin when we started dating, which makes this even more of a slap in the face, especially since she has always told me she wanted me to be her only partner ever. Which was a very special thing about our relationship, it is very hard to find something like that. I cant believe how much I have done and dropped for this girl over the years just to have my heart ripped into pieces. The bard part is I still really love her, and have feelings as if I want to be with her.... Anyone else been in this situation lately? or ever...? I feel even as if I move on and try to work on finding a new girl that I'm doing something wrong, but I know to myself, even if we try to rekindle things in the future, I will never be able to see her in the same light again... Let alone not be sure if I can trust her not to hurt me again. As my online compadres that share similiar interests I feel it is okay to share this, and look forward to hearing any insight I can get from the guys and girls.

Thanks much for reading this and listening to my rants
I just wish I could be happy again, and my appetite would come back and the pain would go away.

feel free to add me to your myspace friends list if you have one
MYSPACE

Thanks a lot guys
-Adam
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now this might sound strange coming from me :eek:

but did you even do her??

you should have, probably why she left you, a relationship cant survive of just "love" all by itself that a bunch crap....and boring :irked: , you are human after all :)

and do her right damnit, you do her right and theres no way she'll leave you to screw some other guy. Good sex is hard to come by for a female when only the guy gets off, she need the pleasure too ;)
 
DeLgAdO;564948; said:
now this might sound strange coming from me :eek:

but did you even do her??

you should have, probably why she left you, a relationship cant survive of just "love" all by itself that a bunch crap....and boring :irked: , you are human after all :)

and do her right damnit, you do her right and theres no way she'll leave you to screw some other guy. Good sex is hard to come by for a female when only the guy gets off, she need the pleasure too ;)
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What your saying is true, But, Did you really need to say it? :confused: Are you saying it from first hand experience?

awdawg, i don't know you or your ex(I hope she's your ex?) but this rule is universal, Goes somethin like this....

"If she cheats, f*ck her off and don't look back" pretty simple. The next year will probably be a little rough, but surround yourself with mates and play the field!
 
DeLgAdO;564962; said:
told yu it was strange :ROFL:
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delgado, you are stranger than fact and fiction...:screwy: :screwy: :screwy: i'm, sure he did it with her plenty of times. too bad, man.... I know it's hard. you have my condolences.:(
 
Aussienative;564968; said:
"If she cheats, f*ck her off and don't look back" pretty simple. The next year will probably be a little rough, but surround yourself with mates and play the field!
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word

soccer anyone? :D

also dont revolve your world around a women

become committed to and focus on work(career perhaps) family, friend, and some hobbies, etc.
 
DeLgAdO;564984; said:
oh damn alot of people viewing :WHOA:
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Probably because they can relate to whats happened, There are a lot of ******es out there.... but there are also a lot of nice girlies out there, You just gotta find out which one you have.
 
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