How can she be so hurtfull?! :'(

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DeLgAdO;564948; said:
now this might sound strange coming from me :eek:

but did you even do her??

you should have, probably why she left you, a relationship cant survive of just "love" all by itself that a bunch crap....and boring :irked: , you are human after all :)

and do her right damnit, you do her right and theres no way she'll leave you to screw some other guy. Good sex is hard to come by for a female when only the guy gets off, she need the pleasure too ;)
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Yeah man, thats what made this messed up, she told me that was a bond she only ever wanted to have with me... my myspace has a blog that says a little bit more, and she cheated on me wtih a really grungy ghetto lookin dude... makes it even more of a slap in the face, and he lives 2 hours away from her... so its like... i dont know planned and laid out... it hurts so bad... :'( his myspace name is J-EAZZY i think.. if I remember and he's from madison wi. if u wish to see his image... anyways if my myspace link doesnt work search for Adam Welu that is I....
 
awww young love...... hey bro there's too many fish in the sea...... i know its hard to see now but give it some time..... you will look back someday and be thankful you didnt end up stuck with that person in that time of your life...... its a growing process we must all go through knowing things are no longer the same...... just be happy you don't have kids and joint bank accounts when you come to this realization.......
 
when i find out some girl cheated on me frist i get back at them by hooking up with a girl they hate....

then i find the other kid.... thats not right to hu with some other kids girl,....
 
well you honestly you just have to take it as a learning experience. All of the longer relationships I've had have been hard to end. I actually have never been cheated on but I've had realizations about them not being the one. My first girl and I were together for 3 years before I realized was a huge controlling b!t@h and that it was not going to work. Sucks cause you feel like you wasted a lot of time but you just gotta get over it and move on. That is the real wasted time is the time that is spent worrying about it. F her! and go find yourself a new girl. She obviously wasn't the right one and it is a damn good thing you weren't married to her when it happened. Consider yourself lucky!! And unless you're a h@m@ you should look for girls at least to hang out with. Hobbies and work are what people focus on that can't get laid:ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL: (Delgado:D ) hehe j/k. So screw her go grab some buddies and go out and pick yourself up some digits or a girl doing whatever it is you guys do. Most chicks actually like being the rebound chick (I know horrible thing to say please no girls come in here and rip me for that one) They have some kind of sympathy gland or something that attracts them to that type of thing. But main thing is don't worry about her. Wish her the best of luck with her ghetto-ass dude and tell her it was nice know ya and hopefully i'll never see ya again. And I am now tired of typing

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p.s. somebody help me out on my post in the DIY section please :)
 
Tough situation, I am sorry to hear it happened to you, too :( . Welcome to the club. It took me quite a while to get over it, and a lot of focus on work (I am with Del on that one). A new girl will come along when the time is right. For now: Cut all ties with that girl, no calls, no letters, no e-mails. It's over.:rip

Go get yourself some new fish, a new tank, cable tv or a cool car accessory that takes a while to install. Get your mind off the past. Live in the present. Work/study hard for a future with a better girl.

HarleyK
 
Exact same thing happened to me. It's scary, almost to the T.

Do what I did. Kick her to ther curb, ignore her annoying phone calls, look the other way if you see her, dont respond to emails, and do whatever it takes to make her feel like the worthless person that she is (dont even acknowledge her existance). Realize that she is not worth your time, and that she effed up and will have to live with the scum that she apparantly likes.
Seriously, it will be tough, but a cheater is NOT worth fretting over.
That's what I did, and I found an awesome girl.
 
Thanks for all the support and ideas and all guys, it is definitely hard, I dont think I should have too many problems meeting ladies... I just gotta open myself up to the idea again, and push on, and just talk to them, look at my other favorite hobby www.qcmove.com there is a few videos of me doing what i do best hiphop dance, i am "adam". Many girls eat that stuff up... I just need to take advantage of it, but its so hard not to think about what happened, how it happened and how she could hurt my feelings like this, and now she is wishing she could take it back but... too late now...
 
AT least you can know that a lot of the people here have gone through the same thing.

That's really horrible. I'm really really sorry you have to go through this.

I've never felt that before. My first boyfriend ended up being my husband and we have an increadible marriage.
So in a way i feel bad responding to you because i have never gone through that or felt what you are feeling.

I observe these things from the sidelines most of the time.
I can only tell you that you have to get over her. DO NOT get back together. If she can do something that awful, dont put yourself in that situation again.

You absolutely need to move on. It will take a LONG time. But you have to trust that there is someone else out there that is your match and they are waiting for you. You two just dont know about each other yet.

She is not meant for you.
 
awdawg;564941; said:
So I've had the roughtest week of my life. This weekend I had to hear my girlfriend of 3 years tell me that she has cheatd on me and screwed some other guy 5 times.
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:WTF:

Break his legs and screw her best friend.
 
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