Some body said earlier, " Break his legs " This guy probably had no idea she had a boy friend. But anyways this situation sucks. Sorry man. But it has been proven now that you need to stay away from her. She has proven herself not worth it.
How can she be so hurtfull?! :'(
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couple ideas for you.
1) don't ever go after the other person. you weren't in the relationship with him. he's just a twig and berries looking for fun, and what are you going to do kick every single guy's arse. i don't think so.
2) if you ever get back with her, you deserve to be shat on. go check your unit for VD
3) the most important thing i think is: GO GET A HOOKER. it'll take your mind off her for good. and put women in the place they are. next to us. not in front of us or on a pedistall, and not behind us either. i'm not "dissing" women at all, but when we(males) are young, i think we put to much clout in them.
you could go try and do one of her friends, but then you're no better then her. what ever you do, i wouldn't listen to Delgado=no experience or raymann=under age ***!!!!!
NOW------- GO GET SOME STRANGE
some tequilla might help too.
1) don't ever go after the other person. you weren't in the relationship with him. he's just a twig and berries looking for fun, and what are you going to do kick every single guy's arse. i don't think so.
2) if you ever get back with her, you deserve to be shat on. go check your unit for VD
3) the most important thing i think is: GO GET A HOOKER. it'll take your mind off her for good. and put women in the place they are. next to us. not in front of us or on a pedistall, and not behind us either. i'm not "dissing" women at all, but when we(males) are young, i think we put to much clout in them.
you could go try and do one of her friends, but then you're no better then her. what ever you do, i wouldn't listen to Delgado=no experience or raymann=under age ***!!!!!
NOW------- GO GET SOME STRANGE
some tequilla might help too.
personally this never happened to me....but i have run into some bullshizzo broads and what i do is put my docks on and walk away dude.....you shouldnt have that much feeling over someone else anyways seeing as how everything dies or fails...dont set your self up to lose that way......give yourself a week and go to a club and pick up some white chick, ther are easy.....thats probably why she went with that "ghetto" dude......
one more thing chicks dig abusive *******s like me for instance.....jk...but check my myspace, display name angrycracka, also dont become her friend and do her sister or mom......
Walk away if you didn't already.dont get tied up in anything serious.I married at 20 my wife was 19.We've been together for 9 years.Even tho i don't regret it there are alot of times i wish i would not have gotten hitched but oh well.Fear must be installed.
Best reguards in what ever you do.
Best reguards in what ever you do.
keep the next one in a cage i suppose.
i'd imagine you're hitting your prime anyways - under 25? - go and explore, enjoy dude.
go get a blumpy lol.
i'd imagine you're hitting your prime anyways - under 25? - go and explore, enjoy dude.
go get a blumpy lol.
suckerfish;568516; said:2) if you ever get back with her, you deserve to be shat on. go check your unit for VD
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First things first, get to a doctor and get yourself checked out! This is nothing to be embarassed about, you don't know squat (health wise) about the guy she slept with, and even she swears he used a condom you need to take your health into your own hands. After all, she lied about sleeping with him in the first place!
girls save themselves for that special person, they wait too long, cause once they try it, they like it, then they wanna do every dude they see, cant blame them i guess. been with my girl since the first iraqi war, 1991, so what the hell do i know, nevermind
i didn't read any responses to this thread, but scanned your initial post. Here's my take. Ditch her. You're insulting yourself by staying with a slut like that. You're only fooling yourself by staying with her. Have some self respect and show that you got a pair. Lose the broad.
ok. And here's an adult's perspective on this. It's gonna be a long one so you better go take your piss break now.
First off, I can relate to you. I met my wife when I was 18. We got married when we were 20. When I was 23 I was sent overseas, which also happenned to be durring a bad period in our marriage. I came back and found out my wife cheated. She is the only person I have ever been with, so I can relate with the whole "only person" thing. That was six years ago. I still get deployed and everytime I do it scares the hell out of me, but learning to trust your loved ones is a very slow and painful process.
Now, having said that, have you talked to her at all about it? Does she seem genuinely sorry about it? Although it's hard to believe, the number one reason women usually cheat is because they don't feel loved anymore. When someone else comes by and shows them the attention they've been wanting from you, well you can figure it out. Another thing that I have read is that with most relationships the new and exciting feeling usually wears off after about two years. That's when you finally start noticing flaws with each other and actually have to work on learning to love one another. Another thing that I have read is that people have different ways of feeling loved. Maybe you were showing her all kinds of love, but it was in the way that you feel loved and not how she feels it.
Ultimately it's up to you if you want to try and make things work or go on and hope for love to come around again. If you do decide to take her back I'd suggest both of you reading a book call The Five Love Languages. It'll also show you if she's really wanting to make this work. I know. It sounds cheesey. I thought so too, but it's a really great book. I had so many lightbulbs going off in my head while reading it. Whatever you decide I hope you can bounce back from this. Hopefully you've found some of this helpful. If you need to talk I'm on 10pm - 10am EST. Yahoo is beer_conisure@yahoo.com, MSN is MrRngr94@hotmail.com, and Google Talk is MrRngr94@gmail.com
First off, I can relate to you. I met my wife when I was 18. We got married when we were 20. When I was 23 I was sent overseas, which also happenned to be durring a bad period in our marriage. I came back and found out my wife cheated. She is the only person I have ever been with, so I can relate with the whole "only person" thing. That was six years ago. I still get deployed and everytime I do it scares the hell out of me, but learning to trust your loved ones is a very slow and painful process.
Now, having said that, have you talked to her at all about it? Does she seem genuinely sorry about it? Although it's hard to believe, the number one reason women usually cheat is because they don't feel loved anymore. When someone else comes by and shows them the attention they've been wanting from you, well you can figure it out. Another thing that I have read is that with most relationships the new and exciting feeling usually wears off after about two years. That's when you finally start noticing flaws with each other and actually have to work on learning to love one another. Another thing that I have read is that people have different ways of feeling loved. Maybe you were showing her all kinds of love, but it was in the way that you feel loved and not how she feels it.
Ultimately it's up to you if you want to try and make things work or go on and hope for love to come around again. If you do decide to take her back I'd suggest both of you reading a book call The Five Love Languages. It'll also show you if she's really wanting to make this work. I know. It sounds cheesey. I thought so too, but it's a really great book. I had so many lightbulbs going off in my head while reading it. Whatever you decide I hope you can bounce back from this. Hopefully you've found some of this helpful. If you need to talk I'm on 10pm - 10am EST. Yahoo is beer_conisure@yahoo.com, MSN is MrRngr94@hotmail.com, and Google Talk is MrRngr94@gmail.com
